Whether it’s a "scumbag" or a "bitch", these are words that we don't use on ourselves. So when we act very "scumbag", we will try our best to defend ourselves, because in our culture This behavior is not allowed.
However, we do not allow it, does not mean that other people's culture does not allow it, nor does it mean that it does not exist.
Who doesn't have a fragile, tangled moment? Who can guarantee that he will only do great things in his life?
The story Newness tells is very simple. It is a story of a pair of men and women matching on social software, meeting, getting to know, having sex, developing, then arguing, both cheating, trying open relationships, failing, and finally coming back together (although this is not They will continue to be together if they don’t).
The hero Martin, his sister died in a car accident when she was 16 years old. She finished college with the compensation of the car accident, and the family atmosphere never returned to the past. Married with his ex-wife for 8 months, during which his wife had a child but had a miscarriage, Martin actually felt relieved because he didn't have to take responsibility. However, after the divorce, I have been following my ex-wife's Facebook account, confused whether the other party has blocked him, and felt complicated after learning that the other party really had a child.
The heroine Gaby is a Spanish-American mixed-race. She lives in Barcelona and has lived in the United States for nearly ten years. On the day she met Martin, she was still buying Coke with other men, but because the other party disarmed too quickly and refused to'get down on her', she was not satisfied, so she turned on the social software and continued to swipe left and right. The match reached the same night. Martin failed to hook up.
The two agreed to meet at the bar and hit it off. After drinking two glasses, they wandered around the city. They went to Martin's apartment after dawn. After a storm, Gaby, who had never had a climax, actually climaxed! So Martin started to make breakfast, and the two had breakfast together, everything was like a couple.
However, I always have a point of view that is to go to bed first and then develop a relationship, just like role-playing, because I have done what a couple would do, and I have a good feeling for each other, and I feel that the other person also feels a little about themselves, so I was moved by myself and forced to act as a loving couple under the control of hormones, deleted social software accounts under the gaze of the other person, met my parents, met friends, and moved in together quickly. However, the essence of human beings is still repetitive. After the relationship between the two parties appeared (for a short time apart, they slept with others one after another), they still re-registered the software and changed the status from'down to fuck' to'open ralationship'.
Although, I think this relationship is a bit perverted. The two looked at each other and flirted with others at the party, and enjoyed it, and went home to get freshness by looking at others. But ah, no one is a saint, this opening is a big deal. The hostess and the rich uncle (uncle) whom he met at the party went to watch the sea on his private yacht. On the boat, the uncle told her that I have been trying to build a relationship so that I am not so lonely. Finally, I found that the nature of human beings is loneliness. It is better to accept loneliness. Gaby was thoughtful. After returning home, Martin asked him directly if he took any measures. Gaby said, we didn't go to bed. Oh? interesting. I think that in any relationship, the key to maintaining this relationship is the irreplaceability of the other party, and at least one thing is unique. In the relationship between Martin and Gaby, they acquiesce that they can only fuck with other people, and only with each other can they talk about feelings. But this kind of bond is very fragile, because the thing people are least good at controlling is their feelings. Gabi and Old Man Nai went out just to see the sea? Could this be the budding of feelings? Later, Martin found the necklace that the old man gave her in Gabby's notebook, so he was even more angry, because pure P friends would not give gifts. In the thinking of normal people, giving gifts is to show respect and care for the other party. but! You think the old man is on the first floor, but in fact he is on the Nth floor. After the necklace incident, Gabi was embarrassed and angry. He packed his luggage and went to the old man's house overnight. The next morning, he and the old man's daughter cooked breakfast for him. The three people looked like a happy family of three. But don't forget, this is just a real-life role-playing game. Later, the old man told Gaby that I had never taken you seriously because you didn't act as if you were taken seriously at the beginning. I give you a necklace, you accompany me to see the sea, I take you to Europe, you can enjoy the extravagant life, reunite with your family, and then take care of me and my girl. Everything I do to you is just to let you maximize your residual value, not that I care about you or want to marry you. Gabby, who knows the truth, tears down...
Here is another small detail. When Gabi and the old man were in bed, the old man asked her to wear a condom with her boyfriend. After returning home, her boyfriend asked her if she had an orgasm, but guess what? She really has an orgasm. Alas, the possessiveness of men is so naive. Did you wear it? Cum? Martin feels that Gaby is all with him because only he can give her an orgasm, but he didn't expect the rich old man to easily break this limit...
At the end of the film, Martin and his ex-wife met and reconciled. Gabi was beaten up by the old man and returned to Martin's apartment. The two parties expressed their desire to stay together.
However, this is not Happy Ending, because as long as life continues, people will make repeated mistakes. Accepting that oneself is a complex of contradictions is not as easy as imagined. It is far from enough to be honest, because murderers can also be calm in court. , The important thing is not to hurt yourself anymore, not to give yourself to the devil because of confusion.
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