Some of the girls are thoughtful, and some ask, "Why?"
Because I am "The Joy Luck Club" A loyal fan of, I believe that the era when women let their husbands decide their own destiny and honor is gone forever.
The two generations of mother and daughter in "The Joy Luck Club" each encounter different emotional stories, their personalities may be inherited, and their destinies also have weird similarities. The mothers who escaped from feudal China and the daughters who grew up in the United States have the same theme in different stories, that is, their efforts to gain love and dignity.
Perhaps it is the grassroots optimism that is at fault. I believe that the result of hard work is to gain love and dignity. Just like one of the mothers told her daughter, "Unless he gives you the love and respect you want, leave him! After you leave, you will be discovered and cherished." The daughter who swallowed her voice was haggard and bleak, pretentious and occupied everywhere. The wife's economically cheap son-in-law sneered, "Do you want to change? Then you have to think carefully about the price you have to pay." At the party a few years later, her daughter was radiant and chatting, as if she had changed a person, and the new one around her Husband, handsome, generous and considerate.
Feelings require mutual love and respect for each other, and none is indispensable-there is no need to be a woman, so you have to endure humiliation all the time. Love is not a reason for being cheap, and love must be given to someone who is worthy.
I'm not encouraging girls to give up their feelings when they feel dissatisfied. After Bai Liusu became Fan Liuyuan's wife, her sister-in-law immediately eagerly divorced, but it might just be the case. Admiration of wealth and despair is a personality defect.
The reason why I told the girls that there will be no tragedy in life, because they have all received higher than average educational opportunities, have the prerequisites for financial independence, and more importantly, have the ability to think and choose for themselves. Such a girl, as long as she is determined to love herself, how can her life be a tragedy? Their right to pursue happiness is endowed by heaven and cannot be taken away.
In terms of female consciousness, now is perhaps the most chaotic time. Avant-garde and tradition coexist. Some women stubbornly go further and further on their career paths, and some women strongly desire to return to their families. Either way is correct, as long as it suits you. Career gives people a sense of accomplishment, family gives people warmth, and people who have both are tired and happy.
The old mother Peng Yu in "A Family in the Northeast" can be said to be a beloved old lady, but who knows? At that time, her husband was paralyzed in bed for eight years, so she didn't shoot any movies, and focused on taking care of him at home. "I don't want anything else, I want my husband." After the death of her husband, she returned to the screen at the age of 64 and remarried romantically, still very happy.
Disasters and accidents are not terrible. God likes to give some people more torture and make them more resilient and perfect. Hu Shubao’s recent advertisement is good, "I dream of it, I stand up and fight for it." Hope will never dry up, a pure heart, and a good fortune.
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