At the beginning of the year, Netflix used a "Sex Study Room" to give us a lively sex education class.
There was almost no publicity, just a brief introduction attracted a group of "hard-working and easy-to-learn children's shoes."
For this reason, I just want to stand up and bow to the screenwriter: I’m sorry, in terms of sex education, I was absent from school before.
In this age of "talking about sex change" , in fact, there is nothing shameful about our youth.
Teachers should not go to class vaguely, and leave the key content to our own learning after class. Parents shouldn't cover up, because things that are not normal will become a kind of confusion.
Sexual enlightenment should not always stop at fantasy, but should be more specific!
After all, a correct and reasonable concept of sex is especially important for everyone.
However, in this circle, there is still a mysterious field that is regarded as taboo and is not recognized and accepted by the public.
Speaking of this, I have to mention a bold and unrestrained series of movies "Fifty Shades of Gray and Black" .
Various storylines have made many viewers curious about the alphabet circle !
It's a pity that these are in front of it, those can only be regarded as pediatrics!
Coincidentally, Netflix , the conscience of the American drama industry , recently launched a sex comedy, once again helping you with popular science knowledge:
Binding Season One丨2019
First of all, we have to establish a correct concept: this is not an American drama to teach you some life principles!
It is a comedy that focuses on a small number of people with special hobbies and satisfies the curiosity of the broad audience.
On the surface, it may be a bit heavy. But in fact, it is very small and fresh.
After all, in the American drama circle with a strict grading system, "Binding" can't even talk about "R-rated".
It covers all the specific elements of this particular field, and it is simply an encyclopedia of letters.
First of all, before getting into the topic, let's take a look at BDSM . What does it mean?
If these four initial capital letters are put together, then the amount of information is huge!
Only four letters can represent 6 words.
B/D: bondage & discipline
D/S: dominance & submission (dominance and submission)
S/M: sadism & masochism (sadism and masochism)
And all of this series of words, can not do without an important role: the queen (queen)
The heroine Tiff is a "professional queen" who works in an underground club.
Her job is to give orders to customers, satisfy their various hobbies, and get happiness.
Faced with all kinds of weird customers, Tiff needs an assistant and bodyguard to help her deal with matters large and small.
So she found her friend Pete and lured him to work with money to ensure the safety of each "service".
Pete was still confused at first, and was too interested in this business, but he had no money to pay the rent and had to go to the sea.
In the next work, Pete was "demanded" by the guests, and instantly opened the door to a new world!
I believe everyone who has watched "Fifty Shades of Grey" should know that this kind of "behavior" is generally absolutely safe.
As long as one party yells the "safe word" , the other party must immediately stop the action to ensure that there is no harm.
But when you have not thoroughly understood this circle, the first reaction may feel unacceptable.
Maybe you would say that I don't have those hobbies, so it should have nothing to do with me.
If you think this way, you are very wrong. Everyone has special hobbies, but you don't want to admit it.
So no matter what you want to try to do, the first thing to do is to recognize yourself and accept yourself !
Customer A , his hobby is to wear penguin doll clothes.
As long as the other party also wears the same penguin costume, dangling in front of him. Or a fight can make him feel happy.
Later, Pete learned that the customer could only experience the joy of life in this way since watching "Diary of the Emperor Penguin".
Customer B is a middle-class couple.
Husband likes others to itch him. Not only can he experience happiness, but he can also relieve his work pressure.
After the wife discovered this addiction, she felt that the man in front of her was very strange.
So she found Tiff and Pete and asked them to come to the door to treat her husband's addiction.
As a result, during the process of talking with Pete, the wife gradually got rid of her defenses and found her true self.
It turns out that in real life, I have a slight habit of hitting people...
Finally, with the help of Tiff, the couple finally reached a consensus and the family that was on the verge of breaking up was restored.
In fact, in a long married life, spouses need not only to meet frankly, but also to communicate in spirit.
Only when you give your true self to your partner can you experience happiness in your married life!
If a person cannot accept even the truest self, why is it worth entrusting him for life?
Even Tiff, who seems free and easy, actually has the same predicament.
Tiff wanted to become a psychotherapist in order to pursue a graduate degree. For this reason, she had to work-study and became the "Queen" in her spare time.
But she didn't approve of this job in her heart, and she also didn't approve of herself.
The stigma carried by this business has led to constraints in her life.
Rather than saying that her job is to bind others, it is better to say that she also binds her own life.
She refuses people thousands of miles away because she doesn't know how to open her heart to strangers;
She always talks about "feminism" because she wants to use it as an excuse to alienate the opposite sex;
She was so cold because she didn't want to admit that outside of work, she was actually the real queen.
So even if she meets the person she likes, she will stop...
But the "Queen" is not a dark job, neither betraying the flesh, nor really hurting others.
On the contrary, he is helping others. Tiff listens to the most secret needs of the guests and helps them find their long-repressed self.
Otherwise, suppressing one's negative emotions for a long time may cause a person's soul to be distorted.
In the lighter case, you will get depression, and in the severe case, it will seriously threaten your life.
So what seems to be full of violence is a kind of alternative psychotherapy:
"Having to get rid of gender stereotypes, and to release the true self that is not recognized in my heart!"
Because under the influence of gender stereotypes, men must "load forward" from birth. Regardless of appearance or spirit, one cannot show a "feminine" temperament, otherwise they will be criticized.
Therefore, in the subconscious mind, if a man has tears, he does not flick, and he cannot say "No", he must have a sky above his head...
From a certain perspective, some behaviors of men are even more difficult to be tolerated by society than women.
In fact, whether it is the alphabet circle or other circles. The process of trying new things is a ritual of declaring one’s true self and a way of venting emotions.
When you reach a reconciliation with your truest self, you will be reborn.
I hope everyone can eliminate the prejudice caused by gender after watching this drama.
After all, life is long and difficult, and nothing is more important than making yourself happy!
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