So far, I haven't really understood these two people. Are you marginalized? That kind of dependent, sticky, self-abuse, sadistic relationship... I heard someone say a few days ago that men do not rely on chasing, but men rely on attraction. There are three points: first, pain; second, sense of accomplishment; third, reward, return. I thought of a lot of things this morning, I thought of the movie "Pet", and suddenly I thought of the word "domestication". This word appeared in "The Little Prince", in the process of human training animals, and also in slavery... That kind of humble, painful, but sticky, dependent, and inseparable relationship... How much human love contains self-masochism? Is this some commonality that exists more or less for all mankind? Is there a little abnormality in everyone, more or less? I haven't read abnormal psychology, but I suspect that abnormal psychology is most likely to talk about the development process of ordinary people's "abnormal characteristics" from small to large. Thinking about it this way, I was actually a little scared in my heart, because it requires me to face the darkness hidden in human nature. Undoubtedly, I lack that courage. (On the study of abuse, think of Li Yinhe.) What is a good love? I think abusive love should never be considered a good love. Maybe that kind of comfortable love is the best love-even if it seems plain and not too dramatic. The vigorous, romantic, and elegant love that many people pursue, fantasize, and long for may not be the best love. How many emotions in love are people imagined? How much of human thinking and the construction of thoughts (schema, thinking model) are derived from reality, and how much is derived from illusory imagination? People tend to prove themselves and live what they are like when they imagine what they are like. What is true? What is fake? How many times has a person been an actor in life and emotion? Are those pains really painful? Are those sorrows really sad? Are those lingering feelings really lingering? In many cases, it is not necessarily how others treat you, but how you treat yourself. People value the interpersonal relationship with others, but most of them forget the interpersonal relationship with themselves. Hasn't nature been domesticating humans all the time? Good to you, bad to you, bad to you, good to you. Perhaps these things of human masochism and masochism come from the indoctrination of nature. This may also be regarded as a kind of "geopolitics", but this kind of geopolitics refers to the entire planet. People tamed from different places have different states and methods for people, things, and emotions.
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