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Chinese New Year is a good time for children to take a vacation and play, but for older friends, it is an annual marriage-promoting conference .
From "There are three unfilial piety, and no one is great" to "I want to take a look at my grandson or grandson before I leave" ...
The elders know that they are moved by emotion and reason, and they do everything they can to force us into the wave of parenthood.
Some people will directly respond when they are pressed, "If you want to have a baby , give birth to yourself!"
But if one day, your child has not yet been born, and your parents gave birth to another one, would you accept this magical reality?
Today I’m going to talk to you about an Indian movie with an open mind——
Happy daughter
Badhaai Ho
The male protagonist Nakur and his girlfriend Renee have a stable relationship, work smoothly, and are preparing to enter the palace of marriage.
At this time, he was told by his father the shocking news that Nakur's mother was pregnant.
It was a stormy night, and Nakur's father lay in bed and read aloud his newly published poem to his wife.
There was thunder and lightning outside the house, and there was a lot of affection in the house, and a new life just landed.
By the time the couple realized something was wrong, 19 weeks had passed.
As a mother, no matter what the cost, Nakur's mother insisted that she be born.
But the arrival of the child did not get the blessings of the family members, and the whole family was devastated.
On the one hand, Nakur’s father was worried about his wife’s health, and on the other hand, he was even more worried that his elderly could not bear the responsibilities of being a father.
Nakur and his brother were also confused when they heard the news.
Thinking that this news would be ridiculed by neighbors and friends after the news was made public, the two brothers looked sad.
Nakur's grandmother bluntly reprimanded the couple for shamelessness.
He was still obsessed with sex all day at an age, and made life to shame the whole family!
The child was originally a new hope for a family, but when it came to Nakur's house, it turned into a disaster.
In the eyes of the world, the elderly should be dignified and respectful, kind and amiable, let go of their desires, and enjoy family happiness in peace.
Like Naku's parents, at the age when they were pregnant with grandchildren, suddenly became pregnant and gave birth to children, which is simply shocking!
Sure enough, when the news that Nakur's mother was pregnant spread all over the neighborhood, it suddenly became a big news sensation in the neighborhood.
Although the men on the surface congratulated Nakur's father for being happy, and teased him that he was not old, they secretly mocked him for being "old and unrespectful" and "old and not serious."
The family also suffered.
Nakur's younger brother was laughed at by his classmates at school.
Nakur’s friends humiliated him when they found an opportunity.
Even his future mother-in-law looked down on their family.
In their eyes, sex is the patent of young people, and the sex needs of old people are a scourge!
Before the death, everyone tacitly avoided talking.
Once someone "embraces", everyone will point the finger at her, and will not hesitate to exaggerate the normal physiological needs into obsessive pleasure.
Even Nakur himself couldn't accept the fact that his parents could have sex.
When he and his girlfriend were applauding for love, all they were thinking about was the mother's pregnancy, so angry Renee threw his pillow directly.
If the parents don't do this kind of thing, where will he be? !
Nakur's actor is Ayousman Kurana . He played a blind pianist in the remake of the movie " Tuner" that we recommended before , and his skillful acting has captured the hearts of a group of movie fans.
This time I played with a group of veterans, and it won a global box office of Rs 2.21 crore when it was released , squeezing into the top ten of Bollywood's annual box office .
Word of mouth is also bursting, IMDb scored a high score of 8.1 !
Although the topic discussed in the film is a general social problem, it will inevitably be a bit serious when presented.
The director used this kind of open-minded plot setting to increase the entertaining and more grounded atmosphere, but inevitably, the intensity of reflection will not be deep enough.
In fact, this kind of thinking is also very common in China.
Before the media have done such an online survey - "Your parents still do sex" .
In 1000 valid questionnaires, 85% of young people believe that their parents no longer have sex .
As we grow older, if we find that the desires of the elderly have not subsided, we will feel unbelievable and unbelievable.
But it turns out that they do have this need.
In the column of "Talking to Strangers" , one issue focused on the blind date corners of the elderly in Changpuhe Park in Beijing .
Uncle Hu, 62, has been in love several times since his wife passed away. He said very bluntly that he came to the park for a blind date to meet his physical needs.
As soon as this statement came out, he was immediately besieged by a large number of netizens.
"The older you are, the thicker your skin will be."
"A group of shameless old men!"
"Don't do serious things, be full of men, thieves, and prostitutes."
These old men and old ladies brought their normal desires to the table to talk about, but they didn't want to "smear" the eyes of the "Saint Seiya".
But why can't older people have sexual needs? Why should the sex life of the elderly be cast aside and despised?
Is it true that the desires of the elderly can only be concealed in order to conform to the appearance of the elderly in our ideals?
When we stand on the moral high ground and interfere in the private lives of our parents, we even forget the most important point——
Can they still have sex, doesn't it prove their health, life and beauty?
Is it necessary to treat each other as guests and sleep in separate rooms to be the "normal" state of care for the elderly?
In the film Renee once asked Nakur how they would live when they were in their 40s or 50s.
Nakur didn't answer, just drank water in silence.
He can't even imagine his boring life in the future, so how can he force his parents to cultivate their body and mind like saints?
Think about it from another angle. We used to think that our parents were arguing about our lives, but how could we not comment on their lives?
Old age lives are lonely and lonely. Those old people who long for love and companionship "hunt for beauty" in the blind date park, and are ridiculed by young people as "old and disrespectful".
These elderly couples with happy lives and harmonious sex lives are being pointed out by their children and neighbors.
They have to automatically shield their colorful love lives and make themselves the "walking dead" in popular ideals.
But in this world, there are always old people who live differently.
They live to grow old, love to grow old, and preserve their life energy into their old age.
I envy this kind of love, and admire this kind of physical strength even more.
This should be the most beautiful old age!
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