I remember watching this movie when I saw the male and female protagonists try to hold hands for the first time in the toilet, I felt very, very sad, and I almost shed tears: it was just a hand held by the opposite sex! But the heroine needs to overcome huge unimaginable difficulties psychologically. Like a person who is allergic to alcohol but also addicted to alcohol, love and the opposite sex are both dangerous and fatal to her. She suppresses and releases herself at the same time. In the comments, some Douyou said that this is a story of a junior high school student tasting the forbidden fruit. Actually, I don’t object to this statement, because for a part of Peony in modern society, no matter how mature you are, you are ready to step forward for the first time. When facing Ta, you will have timidity, hesitation, and naivety that do not match your actual age, and your emotions are easily affected by the other party, because you have no experience of loving and being loved with the opposite sex of the same age. "Love is restraint" is not wrong, but in the end, it's me who is sad anyway. Don’t love because you’re too sensible, you’re sensible enough to think about the sad result, and then you frighten yourself back into your own safe shell.
Towards the end of September, a senior from another school told me that the biggest problem with girls today is that they are unwilling to take the initiative, thinking that love can wait. But many senior sisters told me, don't take the initiative, you will lose if you take the initiative. In fact, what everyone said is correct, but for ordinary people, if you don't take the initiative to walk to others, who will come and see your self-confidently rich and gorgeous heart?
My cute and coquettish upper bunk is not only white and tender, but also she is naturally cute, so even if she doesn’t fold quilts, even if she never cleans up actively, even if she makes her own table all day long. It's messy, even though the clothes she washes always get wet and I wash on the balcony, even if she is immersed in the endless yearning and prodigal love of Saint Laurent and Dior all day long, we can still easily understand her: this little cute She was spoiled by her parents, and she is so cute, it is too late for us to like it, how can we bear to hate it.
My cousin, who inherited the powerful genes of my aunt and uncle, is not a standard beauty, but she can also be called a skin like a creamy eye, Sheng Xinghai, hair like ebony lips, red teeth and white. So as far as I can remember, she has always been chased. From the teacher to the classmates, to the headmaster of the cram school, to the uncle and cousin, none of them disliked her. When I asked questions in class, I was punished if I couldn't answer them. She couldn't answer the questions, so the teacher could explain and even praise her.
However, if you look ordinary without performance, whether it is study, work or love, you will not be given a chance. This society is inherently unfair. You will not take the initiative to fight for opportunities. Who will give you alms?
Therefore, no matter in which aspect, take the initiative, as long as it is not too hot, there will always be no harm.
Isn't it just that some people like those who are low-key and connotative, do their own thing in a down-to-earth manner, take the people around them seriously, and never vacillate? Yes, but if it is a fragrant and delicate rose, you only need to stand there and open it, and it will be a bee to a butterfly. Just like Lin's evaluation of Nan in "Little Times": "As long as she stands there quietly, it is a painting."
Most people are ordinary small wild chrysanthemums.
For most people, only when they take the initiative can they have a way out and an opportunity.
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