The shabby room, the black that domestic violence brings to children

Kim 2022-10-19 20:07:30

I don’t know how everyone understands this movie. It feels a lot to me, because my childhood has too many similarities with the childhood of the protagonist. This may be the reason why I watched this movie and watched it with other people. There are differences in the movie. When the protagonist of a movie is similar to your childhood, you will easily resonate, and you will have a lot of emotion in your heart. It is unfortunate to be in an unfortunate family, but if you are alone in the misfortune Among them, misfortune will become a kind of virus, spreading will only bring even greater misfortune. Like the protagonist, I have lived in domestic violence since I was a child. How to get rid of the psychological shadow of pain, this is a Psychology often encounters problems because it will directly affect his life. Pain and hatred can only bring more pain and hatred, which is incomprehensible to people who have not experienced it.

But if you want to be completely free from hatred, you must see everything through and try to forgive those who have hurt you. This is my own personal feeling, can I really forgive it? I don’t want to forgive, but if you don’t forgive them, the hatred will accumulate in your heart, and your body will be lost in the hatred, as if an evil voice is guiding you, repaying you with gratitude and revenge, or Psychological breakdown, a major change in personality, indulging in depression and anxiety, may eventually lead to a mental breakdown and suicide. You may even want to kill all the people who have hurt you. When the backlog of hatred reaches a certain level, your whole person will be completely lost in hatred, just like that perverted murderer, eventually sinking completely and losing everything.

After watching the movie, I thought about a question, did the protagonist really forgive the person who killed his daughter? How could it be that I had a similar experience, so I knew very well that it was not that simple. He kept repeating it, saying that we should forgive each other. We are human, bloody, as the saying goes, people are not sages, the protagonist It’s not so much trying to forgive, as it’s trying to look away, because if you want to see away you must try to forgive. Although the murderer kills because of his childhood hardships, it does not become him. An excuse to kill innocent people. But if you are addicted to hatred and pain, it will only make those who love you suffer and those who hate you will be happy. If the protagonist wants to rediscover his own life, he must try to be tolerant of everything that has hurt him in the past so that he can be freed from the terrible psychological shadow. Otherwise, his future will be dark, eventually sinking, and may even become a second perverted murderer (like a chainsaw murderer)

In my opinion, this movie is a process of self-salvation of the hero. When his psychology is redeemed, his negative emotions will naturally leave him, and life will naturally brighten up. How many in this world fall into pain like the hero People in China, I hope they can get rid of their psychological shadows as soon as possible, return to a sunny life, and not be bound by some negative things and lose themselves.

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The Shack quotes

  • Holy Spirit (Sarayu): Let me ask you, how confident are you in your ability to discern good from evil?

    Mack Phillips: Usually pretty obvious.

    Holy Spirit (Sarayu): And your basis for something being good is what?

    Mack Phillips: Well, if it helps me, or the people that I love.

    Holy Spirit (Sarayu): And evil?

    Mack Phillips: It's harmful. If it hurts someone I care about.

    Holy Spirit (Sarayu): So, pretty much, you are the judge?

    Mack Phillips: Yeah, I guess.

    Holy Spirit (Sarayu): You ever been wrong? Or changed your opinion over time?

    Mack Phillips: I mean, sure.

    Holy Spirit (Sarayu): And there are billions like you, each determining what you think is good and evil. And when your good clashes with your neighbor's evil, arguments ensue. Wars break out. Because all insist on playing God. You weren't meant to do any of that.

  • Mack Phillips: God has time to catch a few rays?

    Papa: [chuckles] Honey, you have no idea how much I'm doin' right now.