そして父になる, I prefer Japanese titles. As a person who slowly learns Japanese in fishing and drying the net, I understand it as one of the meanings, becoming like a father, and the second meaning, becoming a father. This kind of generalization of the meaning of the film seems to be more comprehensive. Holding the wrong child, and being teased by fate, takes the wrong child. It occurs between two families with very different family backgrounds and parent-child concepts. Because of its dramatic drama, it is not a rare subject in film and television dramas. For example, in the TV series "Wrong Love for Life" a few years ago, the basic drama conflicts are also the same. Among the not-so-new themes, it is Hirokazu Edema who still uses a unique and delicate narrative method to create a wonderful film. The typical Japanese narrative is gentle and polite (after all, at least there is a respectful style~). Faced with such a sudden and huge life change, the film narrative does not adopt the method of drama. When Nonomiya suddenly proposed to raise two children at the same time, Saiki Yudai and Eucalyptus were angry, but after a few words of confrontation, Nonomiya Midori immediately stood up to round the field. All this happened on the side of the playground. The above happened during the time of packing a pork chop meal, which seemed like an unreal episode. However, under the temperate narrative of the whole film, the most intense emotional outburst was instead completed by the gentle and virtuous housewife Nonomiya Miyuki. Noye Miyuki asked, "What did you say after knowing that you had the wrong child?" Her husband responded with a little perfunctory but meticulous procedure: "Why didn't you find out as a mother? I was wrong at the time. I'm sorry (and got up from the bed and nodded to apologize)", he appeared at first, not abrupt, and regarded as a husband who cherished his wife's feelings. However, Nonomiya Midori cried loudly before (even if the nurse confessed that she deliberately held the wrong child, she just raised her voice, but never broke out like this) retorted: You are not, what you said is, やっぱり (as expected) . Blood ties are better than all these years of nurturing. Before Nonomiya's questions and emotions broke out, she was complaining that her husband agreed to let him take care of everything. She felt that her husband must have a way to keep Keita. This sentence やっぱり, she will never forget it all her life. For Nonomiya, this plot is like piercing a layer of window paper. The mother’s complaint broke the disappointment of the son’s quality that was vaguely revealed in the previous article. So when the proposal of raising two children was frustrated, he There is not much fighting and there is not much pain to fall to the blood relationship-many fathers say that blood relationship will make the close relatives more similar, while the stepmother advocates that the birth of grace is worse than the nurturing of grace. Father's opinion. As for Nonomiya Midori, this plot has greatly improved his character image. A handsome, polite and well-paid husband, a family apartment like a hotel, who has been a full-time housewife for many years and Born in a rural area, even my mother would lament that her husband is a tall branch that shouldn't have been climbed six years after the child was born. Even if she is gentle and beautiful, and even if her husband makes her worry-free, there is a hidden crisis of value in the family. After learning of the wrong child, this crisis of value surfaced. She blamed herself for not discovering it, and took the initiative. He speaks of comments that her husband avoided or concealed, and that others knew her as a mother but did not know it was wrong. However, in this episode, against the background of her husband, Nono Miyazuki showed her parenting responsibilities and parenting role consciousness, from a certain point of view, far surpassed her husband. The choice of blood connection and nurturing affection is extremely painful for her; at the same time, there are foreshadowings in the previous article-Nonomiya Ryota seems to be a strict father: practicing piano, choosing school, showing a lot of respect for her son. While expecting and vaguely dissatisfied, he also described his objection to his wife's doting on his son (not practicing piano on the day of the interview). However, the first reaction was that there were many やっぱり, and what he wanted was a good son who was similar to him. Although Kyodo is only 6 years old, he has already disappointed him. It may be a relief to find that holding the wrong child may be a relief. Many are seriously absent in the role of father (not just lack of company time). Even when the husband was giving birth, he couldn’t spare more time. (Miyaru Noye lost his fertility. It can be imagined that his postpartum hemorrhage is extremely dangerous. In fact, you can ask, where did the father go when the mother was in a coma? If the father was always with him at that time How could you hug the wrong child?) It is conceivable to raise a well-behaved but uncompetitive child and face the strict requirements of his father at a young age. Miyazuki Nono puts all his effort into it, but her purpose She is not asking for a good son. She is always a mother and cannot accept a sentence of やっぱり to add to her son who loved her for six years. The camera closes up Keita’s clear eyes in the dark at this time (the soundproofing of the high-end apartment should be good, but Nonomiya Midori cries at a high volume that is not usual. In the following article, Ryuharu and Nonomiya Midori play lively, in the study. A lot of people can hear their voices, and it can be speculated that Qingduo can hear his parents at this time). Although not meeting all the requirements of his father, Kyodo is actually a smart and sensitive child. The beginning of the film depicts a family of three sitting in jeopardy facing a private elementary school interview. For a child less than 6 years old, facing such a serious and stressful environment, even if he has received cram school training, he can say "Dad Weekend Take me to camp and fly a kite with me" is also a challenge. Tian Qingduo also asked his father whether the parents in the new home would love me more than your father. Many answered after a moment of silence, yes. Kyungda, who left his old home, can be said to have been affected by his father. Hurt, later, he seems to be more able to adapt to the new family than Luqing, but this does not mean that he has no attachment to his parents in the past. After all, he will make handmade flowers for him only because Saiki Xiongtai repaired the robot for himself, let alone It is the old parents. In fact, in the following article, when Nonomiya Midori and Ryuqing ate together, Nonomiya Midori also received a lot of phone calls, and it was Dad who couldn't let go. The front and back details of the film are also very beautiful. Kite, the lie during the interview, "Dad accompanies me to camp and fly a kite" has never been realized between Miao Duo and Qing Duo. The kite appeared several times later, and Liu Qing ran away from home because he wanted to fly the kite. Camping was realized with a sense of humor on the balcony of the high-end apartment. Photos, whether it is the Nonomiya family with a wealthy family, or the relatively disadvantaged Saiki Yuo family, have the habit of taking pictures often. Many unexpectedly felt that Keita’s strong love for herself was also through the old photos in the camera. , Ordinary and ubiquitous. Saliva, the Nonomiya family uses a split meal system on the dining table, while the Saigi Yuda family has a large population and lacks ample life. A plate of fried dumplings is already a delicacy. When I stayed overnight for the first time, Keita accidentally choked when he ate fried dumplings. Sai Mu Yuda, with saliva splashing, was a little bit hesitant to speak. After swapping families, they took a bath together again, and Keita and Saigi Yudai happily played a water spray game together. The money and time in the relationship between father and son, a lot of my childhood did not have my father to fly a kite when I was a child, and many fathers would like to see his son as an adult when he was an adult, but he also mentioned it to his father many times when he came to the house to chat. Money; Saiki Xiong has shown greed for money and taking advantage of small gains, but he firmly believes that raising children cannot be traded for money, even if he has more than one child, even if he has no concealed envy for the rich life of the Nonomiya family. He expressed the thought of using the child as a bargaining chip to threaten a lot of huge sums of money. Instead, he continued to persuade him to spend a lot of time with the child. Children. Stubborn, stubborn Liuqing is indeed connected to many bloodlines, even such an unusual behavior as running away from home, many can understand Liuqing. Qingdo is well-behaved and docile, always accompanied by his mother, while the stubborn Liuqing can only be subdued by his father. The main theme of the film is reconciliation. Many of his original family relationships are missing. Although he inherited his father's will and excellence, he never called his mother the stepmother who raised him. This was actually his father's tacit approval. And he attaches importance to blood relationship and was also pointed out by his old classmates. It is a long-term mentality. The reason is that half of the reason comes from his stepmother's heart knot and his nostalgia for his biological mother, and the other half is the guidance of his father. Many fathers can. He taught a lot in front of his step-wife who has been with him for many years, and the powerful influence of blood. With so many people who have grown up, their understanding of family relationships is inherently narrow. If the contact with Saigi Yuo's family has been subtly affecting a lot, then the nurse who deliberately held the wrong child and her stepson had a strong impact on many values. The nurse herself confessed in court that deliberately holding the wrong child was due to the hostility of her stepson when she remarried, and she said all this because her relationship improved and she wanted to be frank about her sins (it was true that after the prosecution period, she confessed that she did not have to go to jail. But the hospital didn't know the reasons, she could have not confessed her active malice back then), after finding a lot of nurses, she looked at the underage, strange boy who was not her opponent at all, she did not shy away from her gaze. Saying "This is my mother" without hesitation, a lot of silence, turned and left, no longer pursue the nurse extra. In the garage, he took the initiative to call his stepmother to apologize, but the stepmother was open-minded and said that he had already let go. Reconciling with my childhood growth and my original family, many found Kyodo again. The mission is over. You don’t need to work hard to fulfill Dad’s requirements one after another. Say a belated sorry, no matter what happens, it’s on you. In the first six years of life, I was your father, unshakable, and your love for me never faded away.
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