Sick lovers are not the responsibility, compassion is not enough

Reba 2022-02-19 08:01:27

When I feel uncomfortable, I don’t always say that I don’t want to. I will put on a stinky face and become very impatient when I do things. Although I am still doing things, my attitude towards doing things seems to be that I am pitying. You, see how I treat you well.

If you treat the patient in this way, and take care of the patient as an obligation, the patient will definitely feel super unhappy. So when I watched this film, I felt that my husband was still very responsible. If it were me, I might not be able to do this. But after reading it, my understanding has changed a lot. Patients need more than just care and should not be treated as a drag, otherwise they will be very unhappy. To appreciate them from the heart, value them, and discover their shining points. For example, black couples and wives still live so happily when they are sick. Although there are many hardships, you can also spend it together.

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  • Bec: I know it's not my place, because I'm not the one who has this thing, but... please don't give up.

    Kate: That's the thing about giving up, you don't realize you've done it until it's to late.

  • Bec: Personally, I'd rather staple my tits to a burning building than have Christmas or Thanksgiving at Keely's.