heroine Lu is an orphan, abandoned by her mother since she was a child, and the writer’s husband is gay. She is a same-wife. After getting married, she has not received her husband’s care, but she is deeply in love with her husband and cannot decisively get out of divorce. She has been suffering for seven years. Finally, the husband came out to divorce and terminated the relationship; the baby’s biological mother was also facing divorce and wanted to retain this relationship by giving birth to a child.
Everyone in this story has worked hard to find a relationship and an attachment to the world, whether it’s family or love, but almost all have failed. The plan of life and the fantasy about the future collapsed, so At the beginning Lu said, because your plan depends on others, if you don’t have expectations of others, you won’t be disappointed. You don’t care, then you won’t be hurt; so Margo shuts off themselves, refuses to believe in others, and follows People generate trust, and Lu does not hold hope for people, but at the same time they are eager to believe that there is love and trust in the world, and people can also build bonds. During the period when Lu and Margo lived together, they had caring and trust for each other, which can be seen from the scene where Margo and his gay husband quarreled. Margo loves his husband very much, but his husband used her to cover up his gay identity, and finally left justly, leaving Margo alone to lick the wound. In the face of betrayal, Margo turned from love to hate, and closed herself to despair of human nature. And Lu let her start to find friends again, until she found out that Lu finally lied. But for Lu's phone call, she felt Lu's apologies, and finally forgave her. That's why margo clung to the branch and didn't want to drift away.
The same is true for Lu. She took the child away to take care of the child. It was also because she was abandoned since she was a child. She had experienced loneliness and neglect. She felt that her irresponsible mother wanted to escape from not taking care of the child sincerely, so she took the child away. She had no relatives since she was a child, and the baby now has brought her a long-awaited affection, so in the end she would not let go of this feeling even in the face of the danger of being caught.
In the end, the mother seemed to be repenting, and sincerely hopes to find her child and put her feelings on her..
Emotional matters are the most out of her own control. Parents will leave, husband and wife will break up, friends will betray, and people in life. The relationship changes over time, and only let go chooses not to be emotionally attached to others can a rational life and choice be able to temporarily forget the pain. But people are just emotional. The three women in the film are all looking for an attachment. In the end, the film allows them to find their need for feelings through babies, because
Infants are born preprogrammed to bond with one very significant caregivers, mother
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