Pain is the fastest way to grow

Greyson 2022-10-19 00:37:10

The film tells the story of an old aunt who is more than sixty years old, with a girl's heart and chasing love.
The first two-thirds of the film are really embarrassing, and the feeling after watching it is one word: poor people must be hateful. The heroine really feels really ugly, looks very weird, and even unacceptable.
Over sixty years old, he has lived for his mother for most of his life. Life is the same. I have been working silently for decades. Every day I commute to and from get off work by ferry and subway. I even spend Thanksgiving every year with my regular friends. There is no new idea in life, everything is so orderly. The only fiance who had ever had parted ways because she couldn't leave her mother. Because of his younger brother's studies, he gave up his life to take care of his mother. After the death of her mother, she really had the opportunity to start a new life of her own, but at this time, the traces of the years had crawled all over her face, and also filled her home. Like her mother, she likes to collect things, some are gifts from neighbors, and some are old things picked up on the roadside. For them, everything is a sustenance of feelings and a manifestation of psychological insecurity. So when she met her favorite boy in the elevator, she would secretly take a pen from the boy as a souvenir.
When she found that the boy she liked had become her colleague, the girl's heart that had been sealed in the dust for a long time was awakened by the old aunt. Everything she does is like most girls of first love, so young and ignorant secretly in love with someone. Create all kinds of opportunities to attract the attention of the male protagonist, deliberately spill coffee, secretly pay attention to his hobbies and try hard to make himself like everything he loves.
This is the case for Dorothy. At a friend's house, a 13-year-old girl found the male lead's Facebook, and helped her set up a fake account to add the male lead, thus learning everything about him. His likes, the bands he likes. Dorothy bought the band's records. Because of Aiwu and Wu, she fell in love with the band and listened to the band's songs when she was at work. The male protagonist was very happy to know, and because of this incident, they had more intersections. I think Duolasi's heart is very sweet at this time, and she is full of happiness. She decided to go to the band's concert. She followed the suggestion of a 13-year-old girl and wore a neon outfit. In the eyes of her relatives, her dress was so weird, even like a neurotic, but at the concert she became the focus of the party. I think the happiest thing is to watch the concert sitting on the shoulders of the crush. Because of her dress, many people showed love to her, and many people took the initiative to chat with her. As a result, she made a lot of friends, completely integrated into the young people and even became the cover girl of the poster. Everything is so fresh and interesting. It injected fresh blood into her immutable and lifeless life.
Because of the contact with the male protagonist, she fell deeply into her imaginary love. When he found out that the male protagonist had a girlfriend, she began to feel sad, and even framed the male protagonist. Love is selfish, but destroying other people's feelings in this way can't be understood. Her approach is so naive and even feels a bit despicable. After the male lead and his girlfriend broke up, she exists as a friend in the male lead's life. When the male protagonist asked her if she would mind dating someone younger than her, she fell completely and felt that she had a chance to be his girlfriend, and she might immediately throw away the guilt of the male protagonist’s painful love-lost because of her actions. Behind the head. But everything is not what she thought. Everything is just a misunderstanding.
On Thanksgiving Day, she broke the pattern of previous years and stopped spending time with her friends and family. Instead, she chose to participate in the patty of the male lead. For this reason, she had a big fight with her good friends and broke up. She dressed herself carefully and brought the pies she made to the patty. She plucked up the courage to confess to the male protagonist, but the result was beyond her expectation. Everything is not what she thought, all the good things disappeared. She returned home desperately.
When she got home, she took off her wig and all her makeup. It’s the first time that I feel that the heroine is beautiful, truly beautiful. Without any modification, without any disguise, at that moment, she was completely different from the previous one, perhaps at this moment, she was truly being herself. After being hit by the failure of love, everything about her began to change. Become likable, start to live like a normal person, live for yourself. Although her relationship has failed, her friendship has always been there. Seeing this, I was very touched. A true friend is that no matter how arguing you were before, you will always be thinking of you in your heart.
The girl's heart, yes, every day she wears a bow-knot hairband on her head, loves fantasy, and yearns for beautiful love. However, the dressed girl makes people look so uncomfortable and even feels unshaven. All the girl's dresses formed a sharp contrast with the wrinkles on her face. In the eyes of her colleagues, she is introverted, eccentric, "the kind of woman who only lives with cats." When she meets the person she likes, all her behavior is like an ignorant girl. Although she looks naive, she is really full of heart, and all her small actions make people look cute. She is brave. Although she is in her sixties, she still has the courage to pursue her own happiness. Such bravery is worthy of many people to learn. No matter how old and what kind of situation, the right to pursue happiness is always in your own hands. Whether it ends or not, it is an indispensable experience in life. Perhaps Dorothy dedicated all the years that should have enjoyed the beauty of love to others. When her friends talked about her, they all joked that she was a child, which caused the girl's heart that she had always held in her heart to never grow up. Perhaps it was because she had never lived for herself before, which caused all this. Such a situation is so pitiful and distressing. So when she experienced everything she should have experienced when she was young, she truly matured. Although her little fantasies will still jump out, she can already smile and raise her head to face the new life and live out herself.

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  • John: I met a woman in the elevator this morning. We hardly exchanged more than a few words, but she made a big impression on me. She's standing right there... Look lady, I don't even know your name, but you set off a fire inside of me that I've not been able to put out since the moment I laid eyes on you. Can we explore this?