The story is like this.
A boy in his early twenties who wanted to become a writer, but hit a wall everywhere. The walls of his home were covered with rejection letters sent by publishers. By chance, or by chance, he saw a lady smoking in front of a hotel. She is beautiful, mature, elegant, and sexy. The man fell in love at first sight and couldn't help approaching each other, so the two began to date. Soon after, the man learned that the woman was over 30 and had her own marriage, family, and children. The man had a headache. He was embarrassed and blamed himself for being a third party by mistake, but also worried that he had already loved the woman. Deep roots are hard to give up.
However, the attitude of the woman made the man stunned: she and her husband actually agreed to each other a free time for each other to have fun every day, that is, from 5 to 7 in the afternoon every day. Giving each other a certain amount of freedom and space can also relieve certain pressures in marriage and family life. The French concept of open marriage of women surprised men, but they were also happy to have the opportunity to continue to stay with women. The woman’s husband also took the initiative to invite the man to be a guest at home, and introduced the man to his friends to help the man get ahead in the publishing industry; the woman’s two children also played with the man affectionately, and said that her mother’s boyfriend was awesome clatter!
Men and women love each other happily from 5 am to 7 am every day. Women are increasingly discovering how wonderful a man is as a soul mate. Men not only enjoy tenderness, but are also helped by their husbands. Finally, it became an instant hit and started his own road of best-selling author. This story comes from the American movie "5 to 7". The title corresponds to the time when the heroes and heroines meet each other every day. The Chinese translation is more gentle and more hypocritical, and it is called "Love in a limited time". For many viewers, this may be a story of "destroying the three views" because it blatantly rationalizes or even beautifies the most disgusting and hateful "derailment" in marriage. This is something that many people, especially women, absolutely cannot agree with. of.
I think that the idea of the movie may lie in the Americans’ prejudice against the French. The French are known for their passion and boldness towards feelings, but in the eyes of the Americans, it may have evolved into the “derailed style” in the movie. The extreme image of "family", in fact, such a family in the movie is rare even in France.
However, I was moved by the heroine’s family in this movie—family members maintained absolute honesty and trust with each other, and both spouses treated their lovers with courtesy and appreciation, and children could accept their parents’ lovers. Enter the family, and even become a member of the family from a guest. The vows of loyalty at the wedding evolved into the same trust and respect for each other after the passion of love faded. They calmly accept each other's fascination with others, but still care for each other and take care of each other, and still share the responsibility for the family.
You said, can you be moved by such a morbid marriage and family? Are you perverted?
I said that in such a family, the whole house is full of sunshine, and there is not a little bit of darkness. Looking at how many families in reality, the couples have long been in harmony. It is not that they are selfish and deceive me for some boring things, or they have already started to die. They hate each other, but they still lie to the outside world, pretending to be singing together. This kind of marriage is full of patience, hypocrisy, and filthyness. The fire of love has long burned to the point where there is no ashes left. What is left is tireless calculations and self-tortured suspicion, which just turns the life of a marriage into a period of time. The long death penalty-isn't the family in the movie a thousand times or ten thousand times stronger than such a family?
"Derailment" is indeed an unethical behavior that everyone shouts and beats. In recent years, there have been more and more "violent beatings" videos on the Internet. Every time it is posted on Weibo, netizens are applauded, and they can’t wait to help. Xiao San was killed, what happened? The public opinion on the Internet will die in a few days. Everyone will forget this post-dinner conversation and continue to mess around and wait for the next time to join in the fun, but what about the parties? They may have started fighting in a tug-of-war for the division of property after the divorce, or they may continue to fight to solve their hatred. Their children have lost a complete family since then, and they have to walk through themselves with painful memories. Life. You have witnessed the excitement of a split family, but no one will see their pain after the split.
What if "perfectly derailed"? A few years ago, there was a movie called "Promising Man", which was famous for the scene of the sexy and coquettish heroine "ponytail in panties". However, few people know that this movie is also a "ruined three views" movie, because everyone in the film is cheating. The theme of this movie is "Perfect derailment can help better maintain marriage", which means that two lovers who conceal each other will be more committed to fulfilling their social relationship because of their moral guilt after derailment— -marriage. Simply put, it is the guilt after derailment, which can make people take more care of and give to their lover, and on the contrary, it can better maintain the relationship.
The film "5 to 7" is obviously a bit more advanced. It not only accepts cheating, but also does not hide it. It is a candid attitude, an attitude of having fun and enjoying life in a timely manner. Just like the heroine in the movie said to her lover: "Aside from people's traditional views, if you look at the world with an open mind, its beauty will surprise you." This is this kind of open mind. The beauty of the open relationship.
Speaking of this, you may have been intolerable to me, and you can’t wait to yell at my nose: okay! Unexpectedly you are such a person! Washing the ground for derailment! Shameless! Well, let us see the ending of the story of this movie.
The man became a well-known writer. After receiving countless rejection letters, he finally received the first expensive manuscript fee. At the same time, he was tortured by his strong fascination with women and his possessive desire for lovers. Finally, he bravely told women Proposed. After the woman was proposed, she was embarrassed at first. She felt that the man had broken the balance of her own lifestyle. Then she finally found out that she also loved the man. She finally agreed to move out of the house and live with the man the next day. On this night, the woman Her husband found the man, gave him a slap, but finally sighed and expressed understanding, and left a high-value check to the man to take care of the woman.
However, the man came to the love nest with the woman the next day, and what he was waiting for was not a kiss from the woman, but a letter of parting... Later the man never went to see the woman again, and continued to write with the memory of the woman. Finally Become a best-selling author, also married and have his own wife and children. Finally one day when I met a woman’s family on the street, the family laughed and had a good time, but the woman took off her gloves and revealed her right hand with the ring that the man gave when she proposed... For this ending, I actually I like it and I don’t like it. I like it because I finally cheated and didn’t make it into Zhengguo and managed to keep my three views, but I didn’t like it because the film’s reasons for rejecting a man’s marriage proposal were both grandiose and hypocritical. In the parting letter to the man, the woman said that she could not accept the man’s proposal because she did not want to hurt her child. In fact, the woman’s husband had already expressed his understanding of the union of the two at that time. Her two children had an open attitude before. And the love for men obviously will not reject this stepfather, so the reasons the woman said are untenable. The real reason is that the director has already told us through the details in the film-the difference in economic conditions.
The luxury hotel rooms where men and women trysts are always paid by women. It can be seen that women’s financial conditions are much better than men’s, as can be seen from the housing conditions of the two. After the man got his first draft fee, he was excited to buy a ring to propose to a woman. When he asked his friend what kind of ring a woman liked, the friend said, "You can't afford the ring she likes." ". After the woman's husband came to confront the man for the last time, he left a check for $250,000 for the man's living expenses. Compared with the man's $6,000 for manuscripts, it was like a face-slapped existence. With such a huge difference in economic conditions, do you think that women will really give up their rich life for an extramarital affair to follow a poor boy who is nearly ten years younger than him for love crazy?
It may be reality that defeats love, and the same is true that defeats extramarital affairs. The film is made with great care and has a strong sense of picture. It interprets a derailed love story very fresh and romantic. However, the truth of this story can be stated clearly in one sentence: a little dick who wanted to counterattack the goddess was finally kicked. Open story. Regarding the Chinese translation of the movie, "Love Is Not Ended", I think it is really the translator's self-made sentimentality. The original English title is "5 to 7". I have already said that the relationship between men and women only exists every day. In the period from point to 7 o'clock, once this boundary is broken, the relationship will cease to exist.
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