I love you but I love myself more-why are women always suspicious?

Logan 2022-01-13 08:02:33

I watched two movies, "BJ Single Diary 2" and "I Can't Help Falling in Love with You". I actually prefer the English names of the two movies, Bridget Jones: The Edge of Reason, I could never be your woman.

In Bridget Jones's Diary, Bridget Jones has been selected and selected with Mark Darcy, and the last shot is embracing in the snow. The second part began to be suspicious. The fat BJ butt is as big as two bowling balls, not beautiful enough and not good enough. At 32 years old, compared to the 22-year-old, extremely perfect female colleague beside him, he is always full of crises and doubts. . Plus there are some chattering friends around, "Friends are always trying to find a boyfriend for you, and then they ask you to kick him. / Friends, they spend yeas finding you a boyfriend, and at the moment you get one, they instantly tell you to dump him. "If you say he is busy at work, your friend may say that he may be having fun with the secretary in time. There are also some gossip girls who are full of negative energy for fear that the world will not be chaotic, and talk to her like swimming in the sea, who is always stung by jellyfish, revealing that her boyfriend is with a good family, long-legged young colleague. Finally, I couldn't sit still anymore, and immediately ran, crawling through the window and peeping, making myself extremely embarrassed and indignant. Coupled with the gathering of the parents of the two parties, he did not let go and did not give her a definite sign when asked about his plan to get married. Speaking of the next generation, opinions broke up. Almost on the verge of losing his mind. In the end, the misunderstanding disappeared. The evidence that he loved her was unequivocal. Even her imaginary enemy turned out to be a lesbian, turning out to be in love with herself, which was almost as perfect as imagined.

In "Sex and the City", in the last episode of a certain season, Mr. Big did not introduce Carrie to his mother. Similarly, when Carrie needed a sign from him, he was always hesitant and uncertain, and then said Take Carrie on vacation to make up for it, naive. When a woman needs a sign that makes her feel safer in love and can keep her going, nothing else you give her is not what she needs most. Why does even a good person like Carrie need a sign from a man? In fact, all she wants is attention and respect.

Also in "Sex and the City", the coolest, most confident and strong personality is like Samantha. She likes her most "Hello, my name is fabulous." After meeting a certain Mr. Perfect, she also turned into suspicious tracking and stalking people. For scornful people, the important thing is that Mr. certain has been caught and cheated and betrayed her once. Trust is like crumpled paper. Once lost, it is difficult to recover. After that, Samantha repeatedly mentioned this matter, and Mr. X also knew that he was wrong, and his expression was inconsistent. Finally, when he stayed alone in the room again, she suddenly became suspicious, climbed several flights of stairs and rushed into the room panting, only to see him reading the newspaper calmly. She said: I love you, but I love myself more. Ironically, after she finally walked out of the room, a woman walked out from the side door. Whether he betrayed or not is no longer important. The important thing is that I am no longer tortured by such doubts. I choose not to care about you anymore and leave you.

In "Can't Help Falling in Love with You", the producer's single mother Rosie falls in love with the boy Adam who auditioned. She has a career and a figure, but he is younger than her and is even more suspicious. Women always care about age. Worrying about age, worrying about this, worrying about that, there is an inner voice always denying suspicion. In addition, the female secretary with ulterior motives around him destroys and creates misunderstandings. He puts the actress's boudoir photo on his mobile phone, and PS shows the two together. Photos, the facts are conclusive. Eventually the misunderstanding was resolved, the boy was innocent, and she finally accepted her age and everything, and no longer had the burden.

There is too much to talk about age. In the movie Miss Potter, the children’s book writer Miss Potter has achieved financial freedom entirely by writing. She was planning to be single and unmarried, but when she met the person she liked, her mother was still telling her that women of your age must carefully consider Barabara, we Haven't you heard of bullshit too much in your life! Porter replied: For a woman my age, the only fact is that every day is important. / "--A woman at your age must consider very carefully. --The only thing true at my age is that at my age, every day matters."

If you put too many worries are placed in care on their age, it is a This kind of waste of time and energy, it is better not to care about the bullshit that brainwashes you and the patriarchal society to rule, and forge yourself to be unique and irreplaceable. Because some things disappear over time and some things don't. Age is a natural law and a gift of time, not a burden.

Life is short, why is it always fettered by too many bullshit, instead of enjoying life.

My English name is Phoebe, I like the English name that begins with the consonant F. It has a soft and fresh feeling, as well as a deer-like lightness, agility and elegance. Not Phoebe in Friends, nor Phoebe Philo, a famous designer from the fashion industry, but the favorite lyrics from a song of the same name at my little airport:

You don't wanan be my girl friend Phoebe. You just wanna show your beauty. Oh, my Phoebe.

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I Could Never Be Your Woman quotes

  • Older TV exec: Courtney Love?

    Producer: Drugged-out hag.

    Older TV exec: Faye Dunaway?

    Producer: Don't call us, we'll call you!

    Older TV exec: Sharon Stone?

    Producer: Hag.

    Older TV exec: Geena Davis?

    Producer: Hag.

    Older TV exec: Sigourney Weaver?

    Producer: Hag.

    Older TV exec: Kim Basinger?

    Producer: Hag.

    Older TV exec: Emma Thompson?

    Producer: Brit hag.

    Older TV exec: Susan Sarandon?

    Producer: Red-state-alienating hag!

    Older TV exec: Meg Ryan?

    Producer: Too much plastic surgery.

    Older TV exec: Melanie Griffith?

    Producer: WAY too much plastic surgery.

    Older TV exec: Patricia Heaton?

    Producer: *Pointless* plastic surgery.

    Older TV exec: CHER.

    Producer: *Insurmountable* amount of plastic surgery!

    Rosie: [who's been overhearing all this from the next chair & getting increasingly annoyed, swings round & grabs the Producer by the chin] Listen, you little bird of a man, where do you come off insulting these women? How many hit songs did you sing? How many Oscars do *you* have? Could you look cute next to Warren Beatty? Or live with Don Johnson? Or act with Ted Danson? You're not worthy of kissing Cher's tattooed ass!

  • Rosie: Putz: noun - a yokel; a jerk.

    Censor: My rabbi consultant said it means penis.

    Rosie: We're allowed to say penis!

    Censor: Yes, you can say penis, but this is the bad penis. Like 'prick'.

    Rosie: And... what exactly is the *good* penis?

    Adam: [starts to take off his belt and unbutton his pants] Check it out.

    [snickers from ensemble of 'You Go Girl' actors]