Ricky's life should be like this. Desperate for her ideals when she was young, she gave up love, marriage, and children, and pursued the rock music she loves wholeheartedly. If according to the inspirational film, it should be this woman's perseverance and success, she became a rock star.
The reality is that Lin Lao Ruiqi went bankrupt, working in the supermarket during the day to earn a meager salary, and in the evening, he formed a lightning band with friends who had an average age of about 50 and sang in the bar at night.
If you don’t have a phone call from your ex-husband, your life will be like this, if you are drunk and drunk today, whether you say it is muddled, or you say it’s free and easy, it’s always an ordinary helpless and desperate and struggling life, with a gloomy tone. The only light is that the love of music has always been around.
At first you thought this was a free and easy woman. She loves her current life and satisfies her current state. As the film goes on, you will find that behind this seemingly random woman, there are many pains hidden behind. .
She should still be in love with her ex-husband, but she gave up at the beginning. By the time her ex-husband quickly organized a new family, she had no chance to redeem it. All the loneliness and unwillingness were the price of pursuing her dreams. She definitely loves her children, but the stepmother of the children has replaced her as a mother. Although the other party paid in kind, it also deprived the children of the opportunity to get close to them.
We often say that only love and dreams cannot be disappointed, but Qiaqia often cannot have both. Dreams, what shining and exciting words, are you willing to give up those worldly emotions for the things you love? When you are young, you may be able to answer without hesitation, but when you have worked hard for it, no matter whether your dream is a success or a failure, you will hope to have the feelings you have missed.
You might say that it’s not impossible to have both. Some people in the family love career coordinate well. Maybe you are talking about a certain part of the lucky ones. We should not discuss that kind of atypical. For most ordinary people. In other words, energy is limited. If you choose a life, you will inevitably give up another life. It’s hard to say which is right and wrong. Maybe no matter which one you choose, you will regret later. If you choose a family, you may be content with the ordinary and give up the career you love, and work step by step in your life to make a living; if you choose a career, you may never be there. Lonely and lonely, lost the human happiness of family love. In this world, it is often difficult to have both fish and bear paws.
The missed ones will not come back unless you can own them again, but the changes in the world may not be what they were at the time.
After watching this film, I asked myself, is dream really that important? Is it really worth giving up love? In fact, no one is willing to give up love, but the god of fate sometimes makes a joke with some people, he does not allow everyone to get everything. Dream and love, you can only choose the same.
If Ricky was content to be a housewife at the time, maybe she was still unhappy. The land did not nourish her dreams, and the irresistible love of music could not keep her stuck in place after all. Thus, leaving seemed inevitable.
In fact, each stage has tasks for each stage, as well as aspirations for each stage. You can say that this is the life balance we often talk about now, but not everyone can arrange it.
The lost love is irreversible, but fortunately, blood is thicker than water, and family affection will not be divided.
As Ricky herself said, she is not a housewife, nor is she a mother-in-law in the traditional sense, but her tolerant thinking also allows the children to see her love.
This is a film about love and dreams. It does not end with a happy family. In fact, in which aspect you pay the most, you will get the most in which aspect. Ricky lost her marriage and got the chance to pursue her dreams; Ricky faced the dilemma of bankruptcy, and she got the love of like-minded companions.
This story once again reflects the difficult choice of dreams and love, and at the same time tells you vaguely, the combination of love also stems from like-mindedness.
Suddenly thought of the name of this band-Lightning, Nietzsche said: "Whoever will stun the world will be silent for a long time. Whoever will ignite the lightning will drift like a cloud for a long time." If
you want to ignite the lightning, you must experience it. drift.
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