Because we always know the hardships of life best...

Shyanne 2022-05-05 06:01:01

In a boring Beijing afternoon in 2000, I retrieved the address sent to me by Naya from my mobile phone, took the subway to the bus, and finally reached the downstairs of his small recording studio, which is an ordinary residential building, in the code. While waiting in front of the door, several Mongolian male singers also arrived. One of them looked absolutely over 40 years old. Judging from the silver earrings on the left ear, the stylish beard and the pair of leather boots, it should be a man. Senior musician.

At that time, I was a little surprised secretly. In my narrow worldview, a man of this age began to take the leisure route even if he was not in business. Perhaps it should be like my dad’s leather shoes to brighten his waist and straighten his waist. Perhaps there should be a work unit that can blurt out at any time. At such a young age, you are still obsessed with Mongolian music, a career that is hardly to make progress. Will you live a long time? !

When I’m my age, I’ve been walking on the north-south train track and pressed my legs, especially on the beaches of Phuket, Thailand, by old hippies from all over the world, using cotton scratching and fucking words to be pinched by various foreigners’ tattoos. After several times, I finally broadened my mind: It turns out that everyone has their own way of living.

But, who of us has the guts to choose the way we want to live?

I just watched Meryl Streep’s new film "Ricky and the Lightning", the old editor-in-chief of "The Devil Wearing Prada", and I feel a lot of emotion in my heart. It is difficult for men to pursue a way of living. , For women, it's fucking harder. This movie is about a housewife who loves music after giving birth to three dolls. In the middle of the night, she thinks of sleeping south, threw down the old man doll and went to New York to find her musical dream. After many years, she formed an average age. The band over 50 years old has a stylish and handsome old boyfriend who also plays the guitar in the band.

The days were going well, until her ex-husband called and said that her little daughter was abandoned by her husband and collapsed, so she asked her to go back and have a look. The story began like this...

Before watching this movie, I paid attention to the WeChat public account "Serious Gossip" and "Gossip Entertainment Circle". Ma Yili's new play "Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou Cannot Believe in Tears". Recently Ma Yili wrote a breastfeeding blog post to promote the new play. , It tells how she milked her second daughter every day when she went to the United States. If she worked hard to persist in this great and ordinary career, the gossip article would infer the article "Where is Dad going?" An obvious father was at a loss as soon as he entered the show to bring his children. Most of them worked outside all year round. They really did "just ask for sowing but not for hard work"...

However, no matter how many days the father was missing, the family always Leave a place for father, what if one day mother is missing? Families all over the world will be like Ricky's house in New York to find her dream. A black mother with white teeth and a turban on her head and smiling warmly will fill the gap, and she will be a rock star with a punk look. When Ricky returned to a strange home with an expression, he saw his children and the old man being affectionate to the black mother, with mixed tastes, and forced himself to go back to the room and turn on the water dragon and cried and cried.

We can never choose two lives at the same time!

I used to be puzzled by those celebrity mothers, why can’t they bring the babysitter and children with them during concerts and acting. Anyway, they don’t need money. I only know when I become a mother that the children don’t need much, he just needs them. A mom, half a dad, a regular schedule and a fixed and warm home, no amount of nanny can make him grow up happily in the drifting life.

Therefore, children, family, living methods, dreams...These keywords are pulling our lives, and finally we have passed the life step by step, seeking victory in all risks.

The end of the movie is still very warm. The children recognized the rebellious mother, and the mother continued her rock life. It was finally a happy ending, but we all know that not every mother who is absent as a child grows up will eventually be forgiven and calm. Not every mother who devotes the best time of her life to her child will eventually regret her life in vain.

Because we always know the hardships of life best, because we were once children and eventually became parents...

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Ricki and the Flash quotes

  • Pete: Arugala.

    Ricki: 9-4-8-8-4

    Pete: You just know that right off the top of your - ?

    Ricki: Boom.

    Pete: Is it - ?

    [shuts refrigerator door]

    Pete: Yes, you're absolutely right.

    Ricki: Of course I'm right. I know all the PLU codes. I ring stuff up all day long. Go ahead, try me. Anything, anything, anything.

    Pete: Bananas.

    Ricki: Organic or regular? Organic is 9-4-2-3-7.

    Pete: Yes. You're like a memorizing genius.

  • Pete: Milk?

    Ricki: 9-4-0-1-1.