A man's story

Wilfrid 2022-01-16 08:01:05

I think that for everyone who has been struggling to find out what their parents mean to them, there may be such a sympathy.

This is a story about men, fathers and sons, old bacon and small fresh meat.
Josh has no Q. Fortunately, when Josh is lost in his world and can only find comfort in music, the only connection with his father, Sam is on his own battlefield, struggling to kill regardless of the life and death of others, just for that share The joy of climbing to the top is like a man who is not tied to the wind.
When Josh proved his existence in the most extreme way, Sam's fighting spirit as a gladiator also dissipated with Josh.
Josh's music connects Q with Sam, gives Sam an opportunity to understand Josh, and Sam has an opportunity to understand himself.
The end of the story is good. The son's behavior was understood by everyone. Q did not become a quitter, and Sam reconciled with himself.

I watched this film because of someone’s recommendation. In fact, someone rarely emphasized anything to me, and he emphasized it over and over again in this film. This is the third film he recommended to me.

I don't want to judge too much about how this film is. I just want to say that in my eyes, I sighed for Josh very tacky, but I didn't blame Sam.
Not everyone can live so well once they are born, and get a pair of angelic parents. Our parents are usually extremely disabled. Some don’t know how to live, some don’t understand why they want to have children, some only know how to complain, some spend their entire lives expecting others to help themselves through difficulties, some don’t understand what self-reliance is, and some are totally unreliable. . . . And it’s such parents who gave us the chance to live, let us survive, what a great miracle.
Growth is a process of retreat from both outward and inward. When the tentacles that develop outward to perceive the world are exposed to icy indifference again and again, the little soul naturally retreats to its own world. In my own world, roaring, angry, sad, crying, helpless, dark like a cloud of unattended mold.
Josh thought that he had been sticking to the music he loved with Sam, staying obediently in the school he didn't like, and then he could wait for Sam's concentration and approval, but he didn't wait for anything. When he discovered that a so-called "home run" was the reward sam longed for, in despair, he shot and killed his innocent classmate and ended himself. With the ultimate self-mutilation, he avenged all the endless expectations and the forbearance of his father's role.
And these are not Sam's fault. Because Sam doesn't understand how to be the dad Josh needs.
The journey of life is a journey of continuous self-breakthrough, and there is no pilot. You quit early and become duckweed; or you keep crying and getting hurt but still struggle to get up and move on. The choice is all in your hands. .
The real strong are not the ones who never cry or are weak, but the ones who cry and still stand up and believe that they will be happy even after being weak. Josh shouldn't use his only life to commemorate Sam's ignorance.

I wish every soul who has been hurt by their parents' ignorance can reconcile with their own unwillingness and resentment, and eventually learn to be loved and loved.
close your eyes and count to ten
May be love's the only answer.
i will find a way to sing your song
so, sing along.
help me understand,
the silence.
we make the best we can of everything
nothing is what it was
turning the light on
honesty changes us completely
tread carefully
take a breath and count the stars
let the world go round without you,
if you are somewhere, you can hear my song,sing alog
what is lost can't be replaced.
what is gone is not forgetten.
i wish you were here to sing along.
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  • Josh: What ever happened to free choice?

    Sam: That's a myth.

  • Alaird: I had to file another complaint about you relieving yourself in the lake. The rules are quite clear.

    Sam: Alard, do you realize how many of our conversations are about my penis?