Step into the sun and accept an objective test

Kody 2022-01-13 08:02:26

Step into the sun and accept an objective test
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Not every movie is suitable for everyone, just like love can only lead to the right two sides. Yesterday I watched the "Sports Illustrated" interview with Agassi, he and his incumbent When my wife asked about their favorite movies while chatting, they said that they liked "Wonderland", and the Chinese translation of this movie is "Shadow Land". I watched this movie two or three years ago and would like to recommend it to everyone again.
I have recommended this movie to many friends who prescribe the right medicine, then you may ask, who is this movie suitable for?
Well, it’s suitable for people who don’t know what kind of people to be with, people who have been or are struggling in pain, people who know how to love and like to think... In short, it’s just like Zhou Huajian’s sing "All have a story." Only those people can understand the song in their hearts".
Let me start with the outline of the story. The story is modified from CS, Lewis's mourning diary "Qing Qing Ru Mei". Who is Lewis? He is a professor of Cambridge University who is full of economics; he has many, many, many fantastic ideas (the movie does not mention that he and Tolkien meet to write a fantasy epic each, he later wrote "The Chronicles of Narnia". Elkin wrote "The Lord of the Rings"); good at logical speculation; a master of apologists; occasionally calm and happy, occasionally childish...
Lewis was a bachelor before his 50s, when he was approaching 60. , I met the joy of life, Joy, a divorced woman. The movie describes how he and Joy met and parted.
Yes, no matter how good the love is, there will be a moment of separation. After two or three years of marriage with Lewis, Joy died of bone cancer.
In the interaction between the two, the dialogue between you and me is particularly interesting. Two people who like to think sparkle in the sparks. Those who are deep and rich in philosophy, discuss life, there are many golden sentences, and this is the only way. People who have thoroughly studied the problem can find the fun. This paragraph is relaxed and happy, and there are many golden sentences.
Lovers also quarreled, became angry, awkward, disconnected, and so on. In the end, Lewis still compromised with love. Unfortunately, at that time, Joy had cancer and died soon.
At that time, it was peaceful and beautiful. Lewis read the book and wrote the composition, while Joy was playing a sweater on the side; Lewis had a painting at home, but he had never been to the place in the painting, so they drove there...
don’t talk about the ending, just cherish it. .
In the end, Joy passed away in extreme pain, not in a sad atmosphere from beginning to end. The movie described it as quiet and beautiful.
After Joy passed away, the original text was quoted in the movie: "
Why love, if losing hurts so much?
I have no answers any more,
only the life I've lived.
Twice in that life I've been given the choice,
as a boy , and as a man. The boy chose safety.
The man chooses suffering.
The pain, now, is part of the happiness, then. That's the deal. "
If the loss is so deep, then why love?
I can't find the answer in the life I have experienced.
In this life I have been given two choices, one is to be a boy and the other is to be a man.
Boys choose safety, men choose to endure.
Pain now is actually part of happiness, and this is destiny.
How to understand the meaning of this passage? Probably as Gu Cheng said: "You don't want to plant flowers. You say, I don't want to see it, and it will wither a little bit; yes, in order to avoid the end, you avoid the beginning of everything."
In Lewis’ life, there are only two or three years to have love and the family life brought about by love. He is willing to bear the pain caused by this happiness, better than the ordinary life before Joy, Just Life.
For the original book "Qing Qing Ru Met", Lewis said that writing this autobiography "is a very good process of self-healing. The evil spirits and the resulting fears that have been locked in my heart for 20 years have all walked into the sun and accepted it. An objective test."
The son of Joy and his ex-husband hid in the attic after his mother passed away. He said, "I miss her." Lewis said, "I miss her too."
If it were you, what would you choose? ?

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Extended Reading

Shadowlands quotes

  • Joy: The pain then is part of the happiness now. That's the deal.

  • Harry: [Jack makes his first public appearance after Joy's death] Well done, Jack. Life must go on.

    Jack: I don't know whether it must, Harry, but it certainly does.