Give you my most sincere feelings

Sigurd 2022-01-15 08:02:11

Needless to say touching. There are just a few points that I don’t know. I need to sort them out:

1. Valetin took over the job. After
Valetin came to New York, he took over the job as a stuntman. The reason is: he can’t bring his daughter back to Mexico. Now, according to the plot, Valetin can definitely take her back), and can't keep her daughter, so he can only find a job here and give her a good life. And this job was actually something he was afraid of (especially timid), but he still did it. So after the journey from Mexico to LS, he has established a very good relationship with his daughter. He fell in love with her daughter, so he wants to take her back to Mexico, wants to give her a good life, and is willing to take the risk of doing all this. His father, his hometown, unexpectedly taught him true love, true love, once he finds the brave love that is willing to give everything.

Later, when his daughter accompanied him to the checkup, she unexpectedly found that her daughter was terminally ill, and time was short, so she spoiled her even more. Give her all the toys, the whole family is a toy kingdom; no matter how tired, give her a dreamy mom letter a week; no matter how tired, my daughter is always happy to play with her wholeheartedly when she wants to play, not with She watches other people's performances, but spends the rare days in her life happily with her. He doesn’t care about her courses because he wants to spend more time with her; he doesn’t want to learn English because there is a reason for his daughter to be a translator; no matter how scared he is, no matter what kind of injury he may suffer, he doesn’t want others to blame him. Daughter, he wants his daughter to be satisfied and happy. On a ten-story building, he is a person who is afraid of changing the height of the light bulb and can jump off for his daughter at any time.
Looking back, I discovered how great and brave his persistence was!

2. Mom sued
But there was an accident in this kind of life, and mom found it. Mom is a very controversial person. The first is that she sued for one thing, which was completely unexpected. Thinking about it now, it may be because she was not a good child (drugs, messing around in Mexico, having a big belly and throwing the child to others). The process of transformation is very painful. I hate my past. The more I hate it, the more I am afraid. The daughter also became like that. So she unexpectedly paid attention to Valetin's education to her daughter, but ignored her once herself. Everyone may be filled with indignation, but in fact, it may be a common problem for many people. But Valetin loves her daughter very much (everyone can see it), she must not be straightforward, she is a lawyer, and it is natural to sue her.
I’m watching "Modern Family" recently. An interesting plot is that the mother claire was once a crazy girl and did a lot of stupid things, but when she was in charge of her children, she still guarded her children from any dangerous behavior, as if she had never done anything. Done. Another similarity is the teacher. Many students will scold those strict teachers: you were obviously students who said... Haha, strict teachers are not alone. Sometimes people will deliberately ignore their own past when they do unexpected things or scold others. This is a common problem, but it is indeed something we need to overcome. The next time you criticize others, think about your own past, put yourself in the situation and think about how you can better persuade and understand others, and don't just think that they are going to do it against you.

3. Valetin concealed that
this is the biggest doubt. why? He thought about forming a family with Juli, because when Juli mentioned it by the sea, he immediately agreed, but was rejected by Juli. But before that, he decided not to tell Juli, he said he didn't want her sympathy. I don't really understand this, maybe it's the self-esteem of a man? I think he really loves his daughter. He doesn’t want a mother who only showed up for herself after seven or eight years. When she doesn’t have deep love for her daughter, he will use this kind of responsibility to restrain her and use this kind of compassion. Come treat your daughter. Later in the court, I always insisted not to say it. It should be a kind of self-esteem. Don’t win your daughter because of the mercy of others. His feelings are not because of the daughter’s illness, but the true love. This feeling should be Everyone can feel it.
He never wanted to take his daughter's illness into account. Well, this kind of thing is really hard to say right and wrong. It's just me, I might be more willing to say it, no matter if it is pity or whatever, after all, Juli will really love her daughter, after all, she is her daughter. In fact, the dream of the last daughter was realized after Juli knew about it. Although Valetin wants to say love without compassion, compassion is not a sin, and there is no need to resist the feeling of compassion. Even if he is invisible, he must have compassion. Of course, he couldn't be wrong about what he did. He gave her daughter the happiest time. He was really happy when he looked at the two of them.

Finally, I want to mention a little detail. Many times I will say that I have no literary talent, and the words and sentences written are simple but not emotional. But you see, in court, what Valetin said was considered lyrics. Haha, I feel that it should be what I think, honestly expressed, the most true feelings have become the most beautiful lyrics.

I really like Valetin's father, Valetin's hometown, Valetin, the simple, true, and natural feelings, the more true, the more moving.

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  • Maggie: [Performing a ritual with a charm after a stunt] No fall, nor wound, nor aching head... can stop this charm from bringing you back from the dead!

  • [In life, there are blows... harder than being thrown from La Quebrada at 6 years old. I'll always carry with me... the memory of the two great lovers of my life. The first one... taught me to be ready to face life. And the second one... taught me to face life without being ready]