the movie "My resentment is about your ass" was recommended to me more than once. I think the recommender should like it instead of thinking that I would like it. As for why I like it, I don’t know, but I only understand the part that I can understand.
I don’t think I have to be tolerant like the Buddha, the Lord, or anything else. The righteousness and blood flow in a river while saying “forgive yourself and forgive others.” If you force yourself to do this, you may not only hurt the unhealed people, and divide them in the end. So? Have you always been brooding about it? Oh, stop making trouble, classmates, of course not. Let the blood shed and face the reality. Facing the reality is the first step to understanding. Regardless of whether the ending is beautiful or sad or different from what you think, face it. One thing as long as the ending is the most suitable for the moment. (There is no absolute value in the world, and there is no absolute good or bad.)
At this age, I have experienced more or less funny things and sad things. It doesn't feel any sense to look back, not to forgive the other party but to forgive myself; I just let myself go, and it has nothing to do with others, so don't think it's great.
Faced with his father who lost his son, Mitte who was hurt by the bear, and us who were'wounded' by the trivial skin, you will know that when you are relieved of all the grievances in a short or long time. This kind of "openness" is the feeling that all shit is smooth.
Usually our grievances come from the influence of the behavior of others outside. If we really want to live well, we must learn to forgive and forgive. Forgiveness is not about forgetting or rationalizing events, but honestly facing the truth. See it very clearly, then understand, then understand, then forgive, only relying on the passage of time will not help.
Forgiving yourself is more important than forgiving others. Only when you love yourself will you love others, face your own mistakes, realize your own weaknesses, and the moment of recognition is the beginning of liberation, and you can start a new day anytime, anywhere.
Finally, wish me happiness and wish you happiness.
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