The collision of innocence and passion

Weston 2022-01-12 08:01:22

"What makes life so difficult?"

"It's human."

What makes people born so wonderful?

Are people.

Just like the song sung by the heroine in the play: "Our love is wonderful, the first time we embrace it, we fall in love...May our love be like an eternal burning flame, let us pray passionately..." Pure wish The spark of their love collided with the passionate desire.

The original English name of Jin Yumeng is love affair, and affair is love affair. This love was originally catalyzed by the atmosphere of wind, moon and early snow. The male protagonist is a typical idle playboy. The female protagonist and singer-songwriter were born and kept by others. The two met on the boat. This was another scene that the male protagonist expected. But the female protagonist didn't buy it. The two went from joking and confronting each other to sympathizing and voicing each other.

The hostess couldn't help crying when she thought of the beautiful memories like a style painting. She said: Beautiful things moved her. She looked at him with innocent eyes. The two agreed to meet in the Empire State Building six months later. She was determined to abandon her current life, willing to abandon everything, her heart was firm and passionate.

The innocence collided with the passionate contradiction, and finally merged in an appropriate and extremely natural way. From acquaintance to falling in love, it's like a pure dream shines into reality. Maupassant said: Men are idiots in love, while women are often business wives. This is probably the source of his warning of "beware of love" from time to time.

In reality, no matter who is infatuated and who is shrewd. One party always enters in the role of the recipient. The other party warms and even burns with enthusiasm like fire, but lost his sight in the flames and breaks into a dream. This is the original fantasy of love. Across the hazy veil, you can't see your face clearly, and you don't even need a fixed image. You only need a tall outline. This image can satisfy all your fantasies about love, no matter what the original appearance is. Separated from our own level of consciousness, they are all beautified or set to which one we expect most, as if our impulse to like a person comes only from the reflection, hope, and innocence of our liking to look at love. Hope.

Then, with the original impulse, the "feeling" born from the heart, projected on the body, it is the temperature enough to heat oneself and awaken the sexual instinct, a tremor that is immersed in the heart and obstructs the blood flow, and after all these internal flows pass through , Through the eyes like water, it is a passionate desire.

Don't think that desire means availability, and passion and innocence do not necessarily conflict. Desire comes from the flesh, but there is no rush to satisfy it. In the other person's heart, you are in the most comfortable position, an inattentive but firm position, and you have to observe and appreciate it from the other side.

This process of continuous longing is the most tickling, once you really touch the line of love, you lose everything.

In the end, when she and him broke through the obstacles, the moment she embraced, tears overflowed, her innocent hope was fulfilled, and her passionate desire was also satisfied.

Love in reality is often unsatisfactory. Before finding the most comfortable position, before faxing and enthusiasm come together naturally, one party often breaks the balance between innocence and enthusiasm. Love can't be said, it breaks when you say it.

But the ending of the movie can't blindly project reality. The love in the movie has a fixed routine like methodology. No matter how complicated the plot is to interpret love, it can't escape simple logic. What is really difficult to interpret is life.

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An Affair to Remember quotes

  • Nickie Ferrante: But you have such an honest face.

    Terry McKay: I have?

    Nickie Ferrante: I can trust you can't I?

    Terry McKay: Yes, I suppose so.

    Nickie Ferrante: Good, come with me.

    Terry McKay: Yes, but the Captain has an honest face too! Why can't you tell him your troubles?

  • Interviewer: I'm sure you had some wonderful experiences in Europe.

    Nickie Ferrante: Yes.

    Interviewer: Would you care to expand on that statement?

    Nickie Ferrante: No.