Coping with schoolwork is already hard, and it is really a leisurely child who can think of this kind of pastime in the first week of school. He pushed back more politely, but Okuno, who had always talked less shyly, went uncharacteristically this time and repeatedly asked for appointments. So, I asked, what film makes you so persistent? He told me that it was the work of Supervisor Eddie. My memory is vaguely floating in the "Non-stop" I saw in class last year. Many years ago, there seemed to be the heavy "Who も知らない" after watching it. I had a good impression of the former, combined with Okuno's sincerity, so we chose to watch the movie on the last stage of the open day. Who knew the time was wrong, when I entered the cinema, the story had already begun for 30 minutes. As a result, we watched the rest with guesswork, but still quietly wet our eyes in the calm and agitated scene towards the end. The Japanese have always been so good at restraining themselves, the darkness is terrible, but they still have tolerated sobbing from time to time. I secretly looked sideways at Okuno, did he cry under the black frame, but he hid it so well. I wiped away my tears without concealment, and stayed silently in the dark until I heard the last note.
Like father, like son. Compared with the original name "そして父になる", it can actually be understood as asking the audience directly how to be a father and how to be a son. There are so many fathers and so many sons. In the parent-child relationship class, it can be said that the first hand is a blank paper. This is not his fault. When he was young, he always heard his father say that parents are the best teachers for children. When he grew up, he looked at his occasional attitude towards things, and his words and deeds came from the subtle imitation of his parents. Only then did he realize that , Inheritance is a serious and terrible thing. There are many educational viewpoints. [Our family hopes to cultivate the atmosphere of being able to be independent at any time] When Seki accused him of reluctance to spend time with his children, he confidently [there is a job that I must wait to do] [ There are many kinds of parent-child relationships in the world, right?] The wife said angrily [In fact, compared to the six years with Kyodo, you chose blood relationship, didn’t you?] Wait, in a short clip of the meeting with my father, I told a lot of fathers In a few words, the shadow of inheritance can be seen faintly. However, even if the inheritance of "blood relationship" is irresistible, the film also tells a deeper, higher bond than blood relationship in the development of the story. It is the deeper love between people, getting along, with each other, and cherishing each other. It can be a lot of apologies to the stepmother, it can be the courage of the nurse's young stepson to protect the mother, and It can be that the Semu family treats all the children equally and accompanies them. This kind of love flows gently, and may slowly arise over the long years, increase, and even without a trace, it will suddenly wake up one day. But once we realize that in our ordinary and small lives, these simple and heavy loves have always existed, the short life will become warm and powerful as a result, and will not be alone.
At first glance, the film is a plain narrative, but many small details are portrayed to make people feel trembling. Some small props in daily life are also used with great care. The hand-made branches folded on the sofa can be repaired by robots that are broken. Qingdo is not good at piano music but works very hard. The Semu family will definitely take the children. The kite-flying that we used to play..... They are all familiar to us, the company or memory of childhood, these things in the eyes of adults today (maybe many of us who are now busy with our livelihoods and are indifferent and numb after joining the society) may be insignificant. , It seems to occupy a large part of the child's world, and even has a significant impact on the child's growth and ideas. And do we realize that one day we will become or have become fathers and mothers? Maybe some lucky people are willing to spend time and a heart to accompany and love their children tenderly, like the Saki couple, but there should be many more people like this. In the society, they are busy with work and entertainment, busy with the so-called big business, but ignore it. That pair of immature eyes behind him. The unbearable social status quo, the people who are struggling with their livelihoods, may be more helpless and sad...For such a reality, it is an extravagant thing to be able to say "a child is actually time" as openly as Semu. .
Okuno-kun later told me, "胸にぐいぐい突き刺さる", it turns out that the photo of his father that Keita secretly taken in the camera was pierced out of the camera, and his heart stabbed severely. We cried a lot, and we cried too. At that moment, my heart seemed to rush along with the father, and rushed to Qingdo's side, yelling, and begging all the way behind the little figure of his son, saying Qingdo. , Saying I’m sorry, saying that you really took a lot of photos, saying that the piano is working hard, saying that our mission is over, saying, for six years, you are still your father for these six years. For the first time, many people who have been loving dad silently, trying to make him happy and sensible stood on the slope, and the majestic and serious father who had been keeping a distance stood on the slope, and their relationship was reversed for the first time. The two roads slowly converged, and the taciturn Kyodo still kept his lovely eyes open and did not speak, but did not run forward. Many people rubbed Qingduo's hair. The two people who were not related by blood became father and son for the first time in a gentle hug. At this moment, even the unstoppable crying is the happiest tear in our hearts.
It was the first time that Keita was put in the boarding house of Seki's house, and Seki waved his hand with a smile and said, [Well, do you know that Spider Man is actually a spider? Qing Duo shook his head blankly, seemingly understandable.
At the end of the film, the two families happily walked into Semu's house. When the camera floated to the sky, Kyodo's childish and crisp voice sounded. He asked his father, "Do you know that Spider Man is a spider?" 】A
lot of gentle answers to the son, 【No, this is the first time I know. ] For the
first time, he taught things that he didn't even know.
For the first time, he taught him what a father and son are.
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Boring afterword: The two people who were not reconciled because they missed the first 30-minute clip, so After struggling with my soul, I chose to go to the cinema to watch it again before class today. When I finished, I walked out of the gate and said to Okuno quietly, I really wanted to have a child. He pushed the thick frame on the bridge of his nose and answered me gently, but maybe...I still want to be a lot of fathers like that.
Haha, the conclusion is that Masaharu Fukuyama, who is so handsome, tall, capable and up-to-date, is the dream of all men, women and children!
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