Those ties you can never get rid of

Jaiden 2022-09-30 11:30:14

First let me say Asoke A Shima and four interactive deepest impression
first time blind date
Asoke father asked Ashi Ma: Are you willing to go to a foreign country cold blabla do?
Ashma’s answer is: He’ll be by my side, won’t he?
Asoke curled up his lips and smiled after listening to the
movie. When I watched the movie, I thought Ashma was right. He was really there when he was alive. The

second time you were around was back to India. The two walked outside
Asoke and asked Ashma: Why did you agree to marry me in the first place?
Ashma said a very interesting reason: because you are the best of all the candidates, better than a widower dragging four children, better than a one-armed cartoonist, and I like your shoes
Asoko Of course I'm not happy, but I can only say disappointedly: Oh, okay,
Ashma said naughty again: You want me to say "I love u", right?
Asoke smiled and said: yes
Ashma replied: "Yes"
and then ran away with a smile. Asoke smiled and looked behind. She

was at the Taj Mahal for the third time.
Ashma said: The king must have been special at the time.
Only when he loves his wife will he work hard to build the Taj Mahal. Asoke replied: Other men also love their wives, Ashma.
Then the two held hands outside for the first time, although they soon came over because of their son. open the

fourth time in the hospital
Asoke knew he was going to die he should be done to check it out and a Shima call
him a man leaning against a phone booth and a Shima calm joking
he told E Shima , No, I haven’t checked, because there are many people, I was queuing
and he looked back at the corridor of the hospital. It was empty and sad.
He finally chose to deceive Ashma. He also accompanied Ashma and laughed on the phone.
So gentle and so quiet laugh

before watching this movie I look at the Lahiri's novel does not apply to another place
and then not conscious of doing a comparison
I think is also a first-generation immigrant couple
Asoke and A Shima is more fortunate and happier than Ruma’s parents in the uncomfortable place.
At least there is real love between them, especially the precipitation of time is more precious.
Just like Ashma said at the end: I understand here. I fell in love with my husband

and then the daughters of Asoke and Ashma. I forgot what their names were
. When she first appeared on the stage, I told my friends that she was a little
girl, she would show up again after Asoke passed away. Hairstyle changed, mature clothes became formal like an office worker.
Then I came back to the end. Ashma was going to return to India. The daughter was married to white people. At
that time, the daughter was totally a happy little woman. Too much difference.
Years and life give her not only the growth of age, but also the change of mentality and the softness of the edges and corners, the words are no longer sharp, and
her face no longer has impatient or obvious hatred. Instead, she is tolerant. and understanding

As Gogol I still think his image is not satisfactory
had Asoke-car accident in the car and told him of his own experience when
I once thought Gogol will change but still a home Gogol I went on vacation with
my girlfriend and left my parents behind. I think many parents may have experienced calling their children constantly at home, but no one answered them while being sad while worrying about luck. After a long time, their children will come back with unlucky words. The children don’t even answer the phone. Only you keep calling until the child picks up. When

Asoke died, he was in a different place
. When Asoke died alone, Ashma was alone at home worrying about the others who were not around. three people
When Asoke died, Gogol was happy with his girlfriend and forgot everything.
Even when Ashma called his girlfriend's girlfriend's father and told Gogol that his mother had called,
Gogol's The answer is that I will come back to her tomorrow,
and then Gogol’s sister happened to call. Asoke passed away.

Gogol broke up with his white girlfriend and married a Bangladeshi girl who was also an immigrant. At
that time, he finally understood something for his life. can not get rid of
or that he thought he dropped fact, he just put it in the deepest corner of his heart only then it will still take root slowly began to spread from the depths of
his traditional Indian wedding of his married life
he Obsessed with his wife and named his own surname. Although he finally gave up because of his wife’s uncompromising, he always felt dissatisfied with it.

Gogol was once angry because his wife said her name in front of her friends.
He said, I and you I say the name of the thing, that's my private affair
his wife is very indifferent to walk away and say, please do not care about people
seeing here when I thought, perhaps this life, Gogol also let go of his name
he The image of the wife may be biased towards the negative direction.
At first, she was silent, fat, ugly, and arrogant. It made people feel disliked when
she saw it. Later she claimed that she started to indulge in Paris because she knew she couldn’t find a lover. The
result was that she became open, bold and bold. very very sexy independent self-awareness ultimately derailed
when the two broke up his wife said: I see myself stand still, maybe I'm still not satisfied that we are both Bengalis
though this woman do not like the man but the woman never Covering up their panic and perplexity
. The second generation of helpless immigrant families may have excellent academic achievements and careers, but their psychological confusion still leaves them at a loss. Different candidates at the crossroads have different paths.

A Shima Asoke begins secretly wearing shoes off and then took a few steps into the room to see Asoke
A Shima at Asoke and before their parents read a poem
and later died Ashton Asoke Mary decided to return to India, she once again singing in the wind
, I think a Shima is always happy she returned to their homeland to find freedom
poem she had just read the

E Shima appears that Gogol's marital problems I thought about staying
but Gogol said, I know I might collapse without you by my side, but I want to say that now I finally feel
unburdened. It’s Gogol’s sister that
until now they have finally felt that they have no burden.
Gogol’s body is not only the expectations given by the first-generation immigrant parents,
but also the American style that he imposed on himself.
His expectations also have Indian expectations. His marriage with his Bangladeshi wife may be loving, but more likely, he still can’t get rid of the somewhat vague but still steadfast existence of India.
The separation from them may make Gogol feel that it is finally possible. Going to the outside world to see the
company of relatives may make him not lonely, but it is not a kind of pressure.


Gogol finally opened a graduation gift from his father, a book by Gogol, and
he embarked on a train to a far distance. Starting a new journey,
he decided to wear the overcoat that gave birth to his father and himself to take a look at the outside world

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The Namesake quotes

  • Moushumi Mazumdar: Not bad, Mr. Ganguli.

    Gogol Ganguli: I'd say we made a killing, Mrs. Ganguli.

    Moushumi Mazumdar: Oh, hold it, hold it. Ms. Mazumdar is the name.

  • Ashima A. Ganguli: ...Besides, what kind of a girl is called Max, huh?

    Lydia Ratliff: Maybe it's a boy.