TTs' identification of gender in childhood

Winifred 2022-09-07 08:47:00

A very beloved film in France. At that time, I read the trailer and thought that it would be like "Blood Heartbeat", like the young boys and girls, the rhythm is smooth, but the French literary film is a little dull, the life flow is heavier, and it is not as good-looking as the storyline like the Heartbeat. But as a one-hour tomboy, I feel the same for the protagonist of this film, Luo Er. Whether it is a natural T or the groping stage of gender, we need to know our gender and our own in childhood. Gender structure is a process of self-recognition, just like the first time a baby looks in the mirror to recognize himself. This is human instinct. It’s just that many times, the fuzzy cognitive consciousness in childhood is instilled by parents or the adults around us. We are just accepting the consciousness instilled by adults. We only know that girls should wear skirts, boys should play with toys such as Transformers, men and women. There is a difference, men and women are incompatible with each other. In fact, we are very naive in childhood. Unlike adults, we are not limited in our thinking or even thoughtless. We just understand our nature, regardless of gender, to play with boys and girls. Swimming is naked, and we don’t know what shame is. . It’s just because of adults’ moral values ​​and ideology that girls should be reserved, and girls should behave like girls, so girls should play with dolls and wear skirts. In such a different social structure for men and women set up by adults, children are also invisible instilled in this kind of thinking. A child doesn’t know much about gender. He only gradually recognizes his gender as he grows up.

It’s a pity that in the brain consciousness structure, some people are daughters, but have a boyish heart. You can’t ask girls to look like girls just because they’re daughters. My parents let me grow hair, wear skirts, and wear princess shoes. Because of the boy’s heart, I just don’t like these dresses for girls. I always insist on wearing short hair and motivate to be a policeman. It was just three years old when I was three years old. Once my mother asked me to wear princess shoes. I didn’t wear princess shoes. In the end, my parents couldn't hold back me, and that stubbornness was probably inherited from my parents. The natural TOMBOY is just a closed village at that time. I always feel scared about my gender and the strangeness of the girls around me. I don’t understand why I am so weird, why I don’t like wearing skirts, and I don’t want to do what a girl would do. , The beginning of love for feelings is also aimed at those beautiful girls. It may also be a process that every TT will go through. This is also a process of self-recognition.

Speaking of this film, I feel that the director grasped the details to make this film. The details are well grasped, and the cognitive process of the tomboy since childhood is well grasped. The tomboy family moved to a new community and met Lisa, a girl of the same age. In the process, the tomboy Luo Er was also integrated into the boy circle. I think Luo Er understands her gender, but she prefers to be a boy. This may be related to Her natural TT gene is related, that is, the boy's heart, but her gender structure is a girl, and she is also trying to portray herself as a boy in the boy circle. The first time was in a football game. She prepared her small body to be a boy in advance, so she took off her shirt while playing football. At that time, the host really sweated for her and worried that she would be pierced. Hanging Lao Gao, as if he had also imagined doing similar things in his childhood, and now considers himself as Luo Er. Fortunately, the director did not arrange that. Everything went smoothly. Luo Er was very successful in covering up, and he got Lisa's heart. Xu, kissed her by the woods. The original poster saw this and felt so loving. This is just the beginning of the love between the two children, a kind of ignorant love, just simply like each other, no matter whether the other party is male or female. The second time when he was swimming, Luo Er created a fake penis. The host was also hung up. In case it was pierced, he would not be able to see people. Maybe the host thought too much, and it was the same as the previous paragraph. smoothly. But sooner or later the act of pretending to be a boy will be exposed. With the development of the plot, the mother finally learned about her daughter's role as a tomboy and asked her to apologize from house to house. When LISA faced her, she felt ashamed and angry. A bunch of boys also knew her identity and wanted to humiliate her in public. In the end, only LISA pulled her zipper to confirm her gender. The director dealt with it quite calmly, without the violence and bloody we imagined. Everything is full of children's innocence and the tranquility of the whole film. This is French. Literary Fan. The director's process of cognition of Luo Er's gender is very delicate and objective. He did not criticize from the perspective of adult morality, but simply filmed the mental journey of TTs or children who were ambiguous about their gender in childhood. Although the plot is very lively, many unnecessary family shots may be used to show the normal life of the four Luo Er family, and appear loose and literary. But it is indeed different from the deliberate plot arrangement of Hollywood, which seems very real.

A very good French film, full of literary and artistic sentiment, Luo Er's blue eyes are a little melancholic, but the relationship with his sister is very loving. Finally, when Luo Er told LISA her real girl's name, she smiled naturally. I think this is also because she recognized her gender in front of outsiders. She doesn't have to worry about the previous disguise. It is also a kind of self-knowledge. During the process, she was able to let others know that she was a girl, but she had left her skirt in the woods before, which also indicated that she truly became herself, a daughter but still a boyish girl. She at least put down her disguise mask in front of LISA, so she can be friends with LISA, but what will happen to her in the future, the host still has a very beautiful imagination. The director left room for imagination at the end, and I think LISA will also do it in the future. I like this tomboy not because of his gender, but simply because of his affection for him and his temperament. Of course, this is also a story. The original poster just wants to say that emotions do not distinguish between genders, and hope that adults will not always use the mask of a defender to accuse and abuse this emotional way.

Speaking of Luo Er’s sister, the host said that although this little Lolita is only six years old, she is really loving and good at acting. As long as she has her role in the role, it’s definitely not boring. , I can see that this little loli is very loving in her own personality. The child’s acting is completely real and will not pretend, so this little loli is also completely showing her cute side, and also lied with her sister. To care about my sister, I was totally attracted by this little loli in this film. She was so cute when she was a child, and I hope I won’t be disabled.

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Extended Reading

Tomboy quotes

  • [last lines]

    Lisa: What's your name?

    Laure: My name is Laure.

  • Lisa: [subtitled version] Are you looking for the others? I noticed you looking at them. They already left. Are you new around here?

    Laure: Yeah, we got in yesterday.

    Lisa: I'm Lisa. I live here.

    [pause]

    Lisa: You're shy.

    Laure: No, I'm not.

    Lisa: Won't you tell me your name?

    Laure: Mickäel. My name is Mickäel.