You think you will handle everything well.
In fact?
When you find that a person who has become a part of your life suddenly disappears from your life, you feel strange again, it seems that it is not as pleasant as you thought. If you see another person next to that person, you instantly burst into laughter, your heart starts to ache, and you can't hear what the people around you are saying, you only know how reluctantly you are smiling. You begin to assume that he is unhappy, and you begin to argue how illogical it is that he has a seemingly harmonious relationship within a short period of time; if you have friends in common, things become even stranger, you will seem inadvertently but deliberately I hope my friends will deny their relationship, deny his happiness, and deny his significant other. You are telling everyone the irony, I don't care, I want them to be happy. In fact, you hope that maybe on a rainy night, that person stands in despair at your door and tells you that, in fact, he still loves you.
Maybe something like this really happened. You shed tears, remembered, kissed, and slept together, because the pain felt better than ever. How will things develop? If that person leaves before you wake up like the man in the movie, will you tell him if he can give you another chance? If you do, after he tells you no, will you feel like you have been fooled and become angry?
Or, the person didn't leave, but told you, let's start again, how would you answer? Will you say yes without hesitation at all, let's start again. Or you will hesitate again, and start to judge whether you should ignore the conclusion that you are not suitable for being together after careful thinking that you had originally reached because of your emotions.
It seems that there are many opportunities to change the ending, and you will feel that as long as you change the route at a certain node, it may be completely different from the current one.
In fact? Nothing will change. Just like the couple in the movie, even after the first relationship during the separation, the woman did not say "I think it was a mistake." Even if they still love each other, the ending of the story will not be different. Don't forget, three months before the separation, the man slept and the other women had children.
Or, there are no children, no accidents. You are looking forward to starting again and changing yourself. Men are no longer lazy and active, working hard, women are no longer picky and demanding and require you to mature. Maybe you stick to it, but the person is no longer that person, do you still feel like it was before?
After a relationship is over, you may not be able to let go of it because of inertia, and the feeling does still exist, but don't forget that the effect of inertia will definitely disappear, and eventually it will gradually decline and stop completely. The only thing you can control is yourself, which is why you can stop unilaterally, but you cannot continue willingly unilaterally. And all you can do is wait for the inertia to disappear rather than push it again.
Don't say that you guessed the beginning but couldn't guess the end. The end of the story is already doomed. Memories are just memories, and memories don't have any power. The reason you can't let go is that you unilaterally give a new meaning to a relationship that has ended, such as jealousy, such as being unable to accept the humiliation and disappointment that he no longer loves you brings to you.
If your decision is sensible, then please don't try to overturn it. Just like you fall in love with a person, don't try to change him, overthrow all the reasons you used to love him. If you decide to end a relationship, don't give it more meaning unilaterally. Resurrect a dead relationship and restore a person who has left forever. This kind of thing only exists in fairy tales.
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