Wallflower and letting go

Eino 2022-01-13 08:03:07

I don’t know how many people, like me, are easily moved by those who give silently? Perhaps, in real life, the thick lines of me cannot find the existence of these people, or perhaps, as a wall flower, I just have no chance. Only in the film and television works, they found their existence. Because they are paying silently, it is difficult for the heroes and heroines to find their existence, even they are wall flowers. Therefore, as a bystander, I can only discover it! Because it is small, I am moved.
Giving and getting has always been a proposition for true love. I prefer the former. Although getting does not mean asking for it, paying is more admirable and moving. Don't ask for anything in return, just put yourself in the shoes of the other person. What’s more important is that these silent wall flowers are not artificial, nor are they stalwart and exemplary. They are dim and implicit, and are not discovered by the public. If I were to describe the inner feelings they gave me, that is Warm and moist like jade, refreshing.
A friend once recommended me to watch "Chun Jiao and Zhi Ming" and "Zhi Ming and Chun Jiao". I heard that many people were very touched, but I didn't, not at all. If I must be asked to express my feelings, I would sympathize and appreciate Xu Zheng. Played by SAM. In this entangled, chaotic emotional line, he is a sensible person, at least he is clear about his love. But how many people really understand love?
If you fall in love with someone, and the other person also loves you, that's the ultimate happiness. But if your loved one’s happiness is not what you can give, what should you do?
Turns out to go around, she or he is not what you love. It's just that the dramatic effect is needed in the film and television works, until you step into the palace of marriage, say the phrase "I do," and then turn your back. In fact, more of it happens in real marriages! Naturally, one person needs to quit and then let go. The key, when? In my heart, marriage belongs to the Holy Spirit. It is only once in a lifetime. Before deciding to wear a wedding ring and saying that I am willing, I must think clearly. Otherwise, not only are you not responsible for others, but you are also not responsible for yourself. Of course, people who are accustomed to asking are more likely to be dazzled by happiness!
Before he (she) enters the palace of marriage, if there is a trace of hesitation and entanglement, should he stop and think about whether he (she) is really happy? I remember my friends who watched Japanese TV dramas speculated that the reason I didn’t like to watch "Marriage Proposal" was that Mr. Tada played by Naoto Fujiki was very pitiful. On the contrary, I went to watch this film afterwards.
At the wedding of Tada Kazurei, his wife was openly confessed. What happened to this? Especially, his wife Rei was moved and hesitant! I can be moved by Jian's confession, and I can also regret what happened to Tada, but I can't understand Li's unknown status. There were too many of them before, but they still walked into the auditorium with Tada. Jian Heli was crying in the marriage hall, so how about Tada? He smiled politely, is there a liquid more vivid than tears flowing in his heart? In such embarrassment, disappointment, and heartache, he silently made a decision without leaving a trace, allowing Li Xin to pursue her true love with ease.
Tada's cufflinks.
In the lounge, Tada looked at the hesitant Rei with a smile, and said: "Make a bet, if you choose the hand that holds the cufflinks, Rei will look for the answer, and if you don't choose, give up completely." Choose the right hand, spread it out, a quiet cufflink lying on the palm of Tada's palm. Without looking back, she ran out eagerly. She didn't see the sadness and nostalgia in the eyes of Tada who was left behind by her, who was still smiling just now, and she did not see Tada lying in her left hand spread out. Cufflinks.
I'm also a math teacher. I wonder if Tada, like Koga (a college teacher), has calculated the probability of the love of courtesy in his heart? The right hand that Li chose was not wearing a wedding ring, and the right hand that Li chose was the hand that first held the cufflinks... It seems that I went back to "guess my sister" when I was a child! In fact, the answer is obvious, and Tada knows it, so both hands have cufflinks.
In Li's eyes, the wallflower chose a kind of love called letting go.
Perhaps Tada can justly keep the gift by his side. But is the ceremony really happy? Will Tada be happy by himself? Since he really loves her (him), his answer is obvious. Let go of the hands that were originally intended to hold for a lifetime, and let the one I love pursue the happiness that belongs to him (her)! Perhaps this happiness does not belong to Tada.
Wallflower Tada has a gentle, tolerant and considerate heart, so he knows how to let go! Among them, there is no lack of strong courage!
As a love expert, Emma can make the analysis of love straightforward, but facing the gentle and considerate fiance Richard and the chic, sexy and affectionate Patrick, it is difficult to choose. Love requires courage. One side may be the warm and peaceful Moon River, and the other may be the passionate island of love. She was tormented in her choice, and Richard saw everything in her eyes. The wallflower man who needed dessert to inflate, finally chose to light a fire, so that the loved one got what she wanted in her heart.
Compared with Tada, who was deep and calm on the surface, Richard was more naive and funny, making the originally embarrassing face much easier. Richard was hurt, but he waited until he took out the wedding ring and looked at the "I Do" carved on it. He understood the meaning of this sentence. Therefore, he chose not to submit the divorce agreement, which made this seemingly accidental but in fact plotting Patrick drove the fire truck and took away his fiancee Emma.
Richard said to Emma: "If you marry me today, you will often look back on the past, with regrets in your heart, and you will not be truly happy. You must live happily!" These words are also what Tada wants to say to Li Let's make a monologue!
Richard also said-I am not the kind of person who forgets things, I know exactly how long I lost you.
What has passed is gone, and no one can keep it. In fact, there is no point in keeping a changed heart. I think if they were given another chance, they would still choose this way. However, the heart that has not changed, has not changed, just like the ultimate Guan Tianyin, I think it is true love!
There is a kind of love called letting go, maybe this is an ideal, a dream, it is purely the thoughts of wall flowers.

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The Accidental Husband quotes

  • [from trailer]

    Patrick: [with a mouth full of sample wedding cake] This cake is fantastic!

    Emma: Shh. Please...

    Patrick: You mix these two together, it tastes just like a ring-ding.

    Emma: [Patrick shoves a fork of cake in her face] No. No, no.

    Patrick: Ah!

    Emma: No.

    Patrick: Ah!

    Emma: [she accepts the forkful of cake] it was yummy.

    Patrick: It's super-duper.

  • Emma: You can't find something if you don't know what you're looking for.