Most of us have this experience: when we love a person, we want to know everything about him crazy, in the name of false love, and sometimes we become justified and even unreasonable.
I believe that the proposition about her boyfriend's ex-girlfriend has troubled many people. It's just that some people put their troubles into action, and some people secretly struggle. I know, in fact, what you care about is not that there used to be someone who loved the man in front of you as much as you did. What you care about is just being able to face her ex-girlfriend with a victorious attitude. You want a kind of affirmation: you are more worthy of his love than her, or that the person he loves most is you. Sometimes women love to embarrass women. Very often, that woman is not someone else, but herself. This is true. In order to get the answer you want, you verify from all aspects (it's a shame not to be a scout), no matter what the outcome is, you will not be the winner. why? Because true love itself should make you believe that you are the best in his eyes. Still need to delve into it? I'm sure you don't want to listen.
As the saying goes, curiosity kills cats, too often we just ask ourselves to bother. If his ex-girlfriend is better than you in all aspects, will you feel a little sad or inferior in your heart? If his ex-girlfriend is inferior to you in all aspects, would you doubt your boyfriend or even your own taste? I have a female partner. After she learned that her boyfriend’s ex-girlfriend was a beautician working in a small beauty salon, she dumped her boyfriend without hesitation. Her entanglement is: I really can’t accept sharing a man with a girl in a beauty salon. Although there is no conflict in time, I always feel that the man in front of me makes me awkward. If I don’t leave him, I will look down on me. Myself. At present, the female partner is still single. If she can choose, I wonder if she would rather have been less curious. Rarely confused, love is not an argument.
Believe the man in front of you, love him, that's enough. Don't delve into it-who can guarantee that there are no bits and pieces of the past? Including yourself; don't test either-nothing can stand the test, trust me, ugly human nature will definitely disappoint you. This is not indulgence. It's not self-deception. More often, all you need is more confidence. Only innocent people (even if they pretend) are worthy of pure love.
However, when he tells you to "keep your distance and enjoy space", please believe that you might really need to do this. Because his subtext is clear enough to tell you: I just don't love you enough! Well, if he wants to be free, you should let go! Why wait until rumors and lies are flying all over the sky? Keep the furthest distance from him and let him enjoy the endless space.
"You should be ashamed if you lie to me once; if you lie to me twice, I am the one who is ashamed." This is the only line I remember in the film. If possible, never put yourself in such an embarrassing situation.
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