Love makes the damage lighter

Asa 2022-01-11 08:02:46

I have been thinking for a long time that the separation and estrangement between people is really easy to happen. This is completely contrary to a naive idea I had earlier. In the past, I always felt that everything can be developed in a good direction. Why can't two people who are in love be together in the end? Why can't we be close again after injury? I am always optimistic and positive that all gaps and misunderstandings will be easily solved as long as there is love. Later, it turns out that everything is not so simple. Perhaps everyone is selfish, waiting for the other to compromise first. Perhaps, people who love each other will stubbornly cover up their hearts.

So I really like this kind of film that explores the relationship between people. No longer disregard the emotional contribution, and treat the other party as a transparent thing. It takes so much courage to repair the broken emotions and reconcile the broken mirror.

So I can understand how my little daughter feels when she misses and is afraid to see her father every time. I know that Dad has been a veil to her for many years. I want to be close but don't know how to behave, as if everything is wrong, I can't get the affirmation of being a father.

So we say that love is the most hurtful weapon. If it weren't for love, how could you get entangled in other people's views of yourself over and over again? (Because it is a close relative, not a stranger.) If it weren't for love, how could you blurt out the name of your beloved daughter when you were on the verge of danger. Only the person I love the most can hurt me, because I care about it.
Standing on both sides of the hurt, love can keep you, or push you off the cliff easily.

If so, please give more understanding and care to those around you. Please take a step forward and squeeze rather than take a step back and pull away. If the other person is the person you want to love. All of this became tender and eternal at the moment when the father and daughter embraced.

I also envy the love of elderly couples. This kind of love is probably the blessing of cultivation in this life. Thanks to the natural appearance of the two old drama bones, let me see the rare and precious true love in my life. So kind of each other, so kind of romance lasting. At the end of the vicissitudes of life after the ups and downs, I look at you. In my eyes, you are still the way I first fell in love with you many years ago. How wonderful.

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On Golden Pond quotes

  • Billy Ray: A canoe! Just like the Indians used.

    Norman: Actually, the Indians used a different grade of aluminum.

  • Bill Ray: You're having a good time, aren't you?

    Norman: Huh?

    Bill Ray: Chelsea told me all about how you like to have a good old time with people's heads. She does too, sometimes. Sometimes I can get into it and sometimes not. I think you should know, I'm pretty good at recognizing crap when I hear it. You know, it's not imperative that you and I become friends. I thought it would be nice. I'm sure you're a very fascinating person, and I thought it would be fascinating getting to know you. That's obviously not an easy task... No. You just go ahead and be... as poopy as you want, to quote Chelsea, and I'll be as receptive and as pleasant as I can be. But I want you to bear one thing in mind while you're jerking me around, making me feel like an asshole. I know precisely what you're up to. I'll take just so much of it. Ok?... Now what is the bottom line on this illicit sex question?

    Norman: Very good. That was a good speech. Bottom line, huh? You're a bottom line man? All right, here's the bottom line... Okay.

    Bill Ray: Hm?

    Norman: You seem like a nice man. A bit verbose, but nice...

    Bill Ray: Thank you.

    Norman: ...and you're right about me. I am fascinating.

    Bill Ray: I'm sure you are.

    Norman: Let's get back to talking about sex... anything you want to know, just ask me.

    Bill Ray: No, I just... uh, I just wanted to clear up that little question. Chelsea and I can sleep together, right?

    Norman: Sure, please do.

    [pauses, resumes reading]

    Norman: Just don't let Ethel catch you.