Who you thought you were vs. How you behaved

Madelyn 2022-01-15 08:03:11

Interview with the director, Sally Potter. https://www.rogerebert.com/interviews/looking-with-loving-eyes-sally-potter-on-the-party

The characters come with their beliefs as part of who they are. I never thought of them as representing a particular ideology. While I was writing, I tried figuring out who they believed they were. Only then could I explore the gap between who they thought they were, and how they actually behaved. Nobody was representing a point of view, but living a set of beliefs they've developed over the years.
In order to look at people who are different, we must look with loving eyes at the humanity that coexists with these beliefs. Otherwise, we are dehumanizing each other, an act that's not particularly useful. It is a conundrum, because there is a value in sticking up for what you believe, as long as you're not too rigid about it.

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The Party quotes

  • April: You're a *first* class lesbian and a *second* rate thinker. Must be all those women's studies.

  • Martha: I too am frequently described by internet trolls as an embarrassment, or worse. Much worse, actually. Is it a crime to be an embarrassment?