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Speaking of extramarital affairs, the most criticized person must be the lover.
When the prodigal son turns around, the wife forgives, it is a marriage, usually a happy reunion.
But what belongs to the lover is the rest of his life that everyone scolds.
Why do lovers choose to be lovers?
Many people think it is a habitual plunder for fame, fortune, money, and even psychological distortion.
But the truth is that the reason why lovers choose to be lovers is mostly because of self-righteous love.
A friend of mine, C, has been involved in an extramarital affair for two and a half years.
She is not one of those coquettish lovers who have skills and tactics.
On the contrary, for the sake of this relationship, she gave up her domestic parents and life, flew to the other side's country, and lived a life of loneliness and loneliness.
Before going abroad, she consulted with me. I am very opposed to it, and even cited the reasons for my opposition one by one.
But she said: "Love is the greatest pursuit of my life. If I don't find him, I will regret it for the rest of my life. If I don't have him, I will be nothing."
"Love is supreme" is the seed of most extramarital affairs, and it is also the truth that lovers can't do without a wrong relationship.
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There is a movie called "5 to 7", and there is also a person similar to C-Brian.
On the corner of Destiny's street, Brian caught a glimpse of an angel who was lighting a cigarette.
The silky hair with iris, the charming and dreamy smile in the cigarette.
Brian was driven by his heart and walked towards the strange lady.
"Hey, my name is Brian, dare to ask for your name?"
"Ariel."
"Ariel-is the heroine in The Little Mermaid."
Brian suppressed his inner excitement and tried his best to be calm.
Nothing is more attractive than a romantic encounter. Ariel asked him to see you here tomorrow afternoon at 5 o'clock.
Brian was fascinated, and he was about to catch this "little mermaid"-his only heartbeat after waiting for years.
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But destiny seemed to be joking with him.
This "little mermaid" originally had a fisherman-her husband is an excellent diplomat, and she has two children.
She invited him to work every week, from 5 to 7 in the afternoon.
This is the "extramarital affair moment" she tacitly approved.
At the beginning, he did not accept it, which was very different from his idea.
What he wants to look for is a partner to accompany him, not a stimulating extramarital affair.
"I'm still at the old place at 5 o'clock every afternoon, you can change your mind and you can come to me."
Ariel's voice is very soft, like an aphrodisiac.
When love comes, probably no one can stop it.
Bryan put aside his principles and entered the "extramarital affairs theater" that he had never imagined in his life.
"All, only love is the greatest." ——Brian romantically believes that he can bear this unreasonable love.
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He owns his exclusive room-number 2117;
He has his exclusive time-5 to 7 pm on weekdays;
He has his exclusive scene-when Ariel's husband is away, he and Ariel can walk side by side in the sun, can't hold hands, hug and kiss, all intimate actions must return to the exclusive room.
The fresh and exciting experience makes Brian very happy.
They are like ordinary couples, watching exhibitions, watching movies, eating, talking about topics that they don't understand each other, and having sticky sex.
Brian was shocked that he had become the third party in someone else's marriage, but when he found out, he was out of control.
5
Gradually, Brian's desires began to swell.
He looked at the "little mermaid" in front of him, as if he was no longer satisfied with playing with her in the sea at a fixed time, he wanted to catch her on a boat and take it as his own.
He wants to invade Ariel's life and let the world of two people quietly merge into one.
He took Ariel to meet his parents.
In front of her parents, introduce Ariel as her lover.
Ariel felt wrong, but Brian said, "Thank you for helping me deal with my parents."
He cunningly rationalized this formal parent meeting.
He believes that to conquer Ariel, one must first conquer her child.
He actively plays with her children during dating time.
He even attended Ariel's family dinner.
For the first time, he felt that Ariel had a perfect family that everyone admired.
He was swayed by a sense of guilt.
"Do I really want to destroy this originally happy and complete family for love?" -He hesitated.
6
Originally, they balanced the scale of this relationship well.
Just like every lover, even if he really wants to be in position, he is still willing to be a shadow lover because of guilt.
However, jealousy always wins battles.
Bryan's career, for the first time, made its way to the podium. He was very excited, and invited Ariel to attend the awards ceremony.
Unexpectedly, this awards ceremony made his life balance instantly tilted.
Ariel is here. This is the first time they meet outside of the rules. Brian is very happy.
But then he found out that Ariel had come with her husband.
She didn't break the rules after all.
Brian became angry from embarrassment.
In this love of three people, he can only be an unnamed shadow.
"It's good to come to my awards ceremony tonight. You should use the identity of'my love', not someone else's wife!" -Brian stared at the hand holding Ariel, his heart burned. There was a blazing fire of jealousy.
He decided that he wanted to own her, no matter what the price was.
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"It's time"-Brian decided to himself.
He knelt down on one knee and said the long-practice confession.
"What I really want to accomplish is to be someone who is by your side, not just from 5 to 7 o'clock. Marry me, Ariel, I want to be your husband, I want to do The stepfather of your children."
Ariel was stunned. She thought that Brian didn't really understand their relationship.
"We are lovers. Do you understand?"
"We are just lovers now, but it doesn't mean that we will always be like this."
"No, you broke the rules, you ruined our relationship, we don't want to see you again."
Brian was silly. He looked at the "little mermaid" he had dreamed of. He tried to catch her ashore, but forgot that she had never wanted to go ashore with him and become his possession.
They are lovers, there is no future, only in the dark.
8
Freud once said: "When a person is in unavoidable pain, he will fall in love with this pain and regard it as happiness."
That's the case with Brian, and so does C.
After C went to a foreign country, he found that his lover had a partner long ago.
At first, the other party said that he and his partner had already negotiated a divorce, but later found out that the two were in a good relationship and his wife was five months pregnant.
"I hid on street corners countless times, looking at their happy appearance. I think that should belong to me."
C began to quarrel, and the other party found that C could not be controlled, and let C roll back to China.
C is not reconciled, so he feels wronged again.
They spent two and a half years of entanglement back and forth.
Not getting a lover is the greatest pain for lovers, but this pain has become the driving force, driving them to invest again and again, just to get it.
But, I can’t help asking: "Is this really the happiness you want?"
In an extramarital affair, neither the infidelity nor the lover is innocent.
But in extramarital affairs, cheatingers are often sensible. They know their own scale, the importance of their family, and their final direction.
Marriage is not just about having love, it can be broken down. The essence of marriage is a solid model of cooperation. In addition to many years of emotions, there are responsibilities and interests involved.
It is impossible for most cheating people to give up their marriage.
Therefore, the lover who is led by the nose by the derailed person is just a fool who is dazzled by love.
In the end, what did you get?
When you give up the bottom line, you have already threw yourself on the bench by default, and all you get is immortal guilt and the rest of your life being despised.
After all, the upper ranks of lovers are rare, and more lovers will not give up silently in the process of loss, but will be separated in the process of loss.
Falling in love with an impossible person is not a sacrifice, but a suicide.
Take love as the blade and love as the cup, turning yourself into a hopeless patient.
If you are still rational, you should take medicine in time to let the wound heal and keep yourself away from pathogens.
But the "love first" person plunged the knife deeper into his chest, reminding himself with severe pain: "I'm not reconciled, I don't want to give up."
When I am dying, when my destiny has no room for recovery, I will open my tears and see the final verdict of love: "I was really wrong."
Author | There Duck Egg
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