This movie fits the question that everyone is thinking about nowadays, do older women have an ego? Does it have its own value?
The first concern on this topic was a news a few years ago. Haiqing said when she said an acceptance speech, please directors look at us middle-aged women, we can not only act as the mother of a certain child, and so on. Killing Eve last year once again allowed the Chinese people to see foreign countries and their perceptions of older women. In addition to having children, dealing with mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, earning money, and hysterical busy children going to school, they can also solve crimes, and they can also interact with young girls. Falling in love, there are endless possibilities...
Although the sister who rides the wind and waves has been complained a lot, she can still see the entertainment people's attention to older women. 50+ Zhong Liti, Yi Nengjing can dance, can work so hard; 40+ tranquility can somersault, split, can be so cool; older women are really not a term like a beast.
The script is the usual routine of Hollywood. Through what happened to everyone, I finally overcome my own psychological problems and changed my own life. It ended in a happy ending and very relieved. Different from Japan and South Korea's sharp, sad, and incapable of solving any problems, this kind of routine may be more suitable for us who are already living in difficulties. Why watch a movie and make yourself more depressed.
60+, women who are still elegant, beautiful, looking for love, and like reading, have all kinds of problems of their own.
A strong woman who is rich, but is extremely insecure and trustworthy. 40 years ago, I was busy with my career when I refused my lover's proposal. Until the lover appeared again, but wanted to continue to escape.
Housewives, all of their lives focus on raising children and caring for the family. In fact, my husband and I have long lost their relationship, but they have been compromising for the sake of responsibility. The sudden death of her husband made it impossible for the two daughters to accept and take care of the mother like a child.
A female federal judge has a successful career, but her family is not so perfect. I am entangled with her husband who has been divorced a long time ago, and the relationship with her son is not so close. 40 years without love.
I fell in love with my husband at first sight, but there were always some things that the two of them couldn't get along in their 40 years of life. After her husband retired, she lacked interest in everything. She always wanted to make up for the relationship between the two, but she made more mistakes.
The four heroines have been with each other from childhood to old age. The book club activities every month have persisted. This time, the wealthy heroine recommended a novel somewhat similar to Xiaohuangshu. Because of this novel, the love hormones of the four heroines are aroused.
So, began to pursue his different love. The heroes appeared at the same time.
The following story is about overcoming the psychological barriers, the barriers of the people around me, and everyone happily pursues the life they want. Inside, the impression of the housewife is the deepest, because she is the main heroine, and it is her tone to narrate these things. She finally said to her daughter that this feeling might leave me bruised and bruised and might end in tragedy, but that was my choice, and I am happy now. Is there a young man’s impulse? We emphasize that we should not make mistakes and consider the problem more and more comprehensively. At the same time, we are suppressing our own nature and emotions, as if we have become rational robots.
In fact, what touched me the most is that although their identities have a huge gap, including money and cognition, they can always be friends, they can have a common language, and they can communicate.
When I look at any domestic literary works, I see more and more class and the gap between classes. Together with a youth film that was chased in a day, the 17-year-old child asked: Can shrimp in the river and shrimp in the sea play together? Ordinary people who live in a messy place looked at the city center from the top floor and said, I want to live there. I will become a rich man.
Even we ourselves live in this gap all the time. I don't know how this came about, or what this increasingly obvious difference means. All I know is that the children I have been avoiding and the families I have been avoiding are just because I don't want to see these gaps and want to change them.
When I was young, there were really no such things, only classmates, teachers, friendship, knowledge, scores...When you leave the campus, your classmates are immediately different from yourself. From the first car to the first room, the gap is getting bigger and bigger...
I don't know if I can use the thought of abundance to affirm and comfort myself beyond the material. I just hope to have that indifferent state of mind. That way you can live for yourself, nothing is too late.
It's hardest to be indifferent when people are tired of life.
At the same time, I look forward to meeting someone just like myself, no matter how old or when I meet, it’s not too late.
One of the male protagonists said to the wealthy female protagonist: What I like is the rich you, the independent you. It is this kind of you that will keep me in love forever. So I don’t want to change you.
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