Bernadette, where have you been?
After reading it, I think this is not only a problem of physical space, but also a problem of my heart.
Bernadette's complaints about moving, lack of gregariousness, etc., after talking to his old friends, the best answer is also the turning point of the film: as an artist, you have to create!
The husband is stuck in the working atmosphere and loses attention to the family and his wife, and the wife is also stuck in a lot of self-suffering. The husband can’t understand, he can’t even try to communicate and work hard to understand. It’s just according to bystanders. He added fuel and jealousy for no reason, made assumptions and judgments on his wife, and even asked her to "shut down" her to a mental hospital for recuperation. It is also very emotional to see this. Even so, the two of them did not propose a divorce idea. Even when the pair were very disappointed with each other, the barrage floated by "Divorce" Barabara. , I don’t know if this is the understanding of marriage under the two cultural differences. Our fault tolerance seems to be that when we cannot understand and communicate, we are more likely to give up and excessive pursuit of perfection; but we see more in real life It is when there are bottom-line fluctuations, such as derailment, such as domestic violence, but many of these marriage relationships have lingered.
In the last paragraph I like very much, the husband returned Bernadette the necklace symbolizing the remaining 16 miracles, and said the very touching sentence "There are more miracles waiting for you to create"
I haven't seen the complete original work, so based on the understanding of the content of the film, it can be considered a relatively neat work. In any case, this film has a lot to think about, family relationships and self-meaning, etc. One must find the value of self-survival, balance the family, and get support. This will be a very happy thing and the ultimate meaning of this question. Bar!
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