Put aside all the film reviews and analysis, find the answer by yourself. Why did the hostess swallow a foreign body? Admittedly, there is more than one reason. In my opinion, the most important thing is her childhood experience, coupled with the rejection of her biological mother, which caused the heroine to have extremely low self-esteem and high inferiority complex. This is why she is accustomed to apologizing, thanking others, helping to do unnecessary things in the future, facing her in-laws' promises, and facing her husband. Moreover, she is too sensitive in life, timid to express her opinions, intolerant of herself, intolerant of making mistakes, and needs to rely on her husband's promise to find a sense of security. This is all due to the growth environment in childhood.
In fact, what the parents-in-law and the family did was not excessive, and they were even trying to understand and help her. However, this is not something that can be changed overnight. For the female protagonist, perhaps she can't solve this problem well. The root of the problem lies in her biological parents. Therefore, let us be more tolerant of people in this world and ourselves. No one knows who has gone through what, and it is a great thing to be able to bear everything so bravely.
Perhaps this is a movie that you need to experience and empathize before you can understand it. But the director chose this extreme example, not necessarily just to remind us that everyone’s life is more or less imperfect, and maybe they don’t recognize certain aspects of themselves, and the people close to them may bring you Some harm. We may also have some similar experiences. We often feel low self-esteem and feel unnecessary to exist in this world. In fact, it is not. In any case, we should accept ourselves, see ourselves clearly, and always tolerate ourselves and love life.
In fact, just like the security guard said, "Don't think about it so much, it's already a very happy thing to live." Where can there be so many perfect things in the world.
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