Every child has to face the world independently for the first time. What kind of role do you hope as a father play at that moment?
Do you remember the first time you faced a challenge independently when you were a kid?
Physical growth is certainly important for children, but more importantly, children’s mental health is the cultivation of the soul.
In the process of the little boy's miracle, the first person who had an important influence on him was his father.
As soon as the protagonist was born, his father found out that he was very small, but it didn’t matter "He will grow up, right?"
Dad measured him his height, which was obviously a lot shorter than the height of their first child at the same age. At this time, the protagonist's eyes were a little frustrated and uneasy. Dad saw it and smiled and said to him: "I am you friend". A confident smile returned to the little boy's face immediately. How about small? I have a dad.
Dad gave him the same childhood as everyone else, even more abundant, playing crazy with him, playing with him, and taking risks, until Dad went to the battlefield. Although Dad is not by his side, I believe that Dad’s love has always been with him and surrounded him.
Until he was selected by the magician to perform the intention to move the bottle, facing the audience who had been bullying him off the stage, his heart was filled with hesitation and hesitation. Can I do it? If Dad is around, maybe I can. At this time, the magician acted as the father-to-be and asked his famous sentence: "Do you believe you can do it?"
The magician was the object he and his father imitated, and this line was often said to him by his father. At this moment, speaking from the magician’s mouth, it reminded him of the situation with his father. It was full of power. He raised his arm and focused on the bottle. Finally the bottle moved, and the audience applauded him. Cheers.
The role of the father is sublimated here. He is not only a father, but also a source of power for a child to overcome fear when facing the world independently for the first time.
In fact, it is not so much that this sentence gave him strength, it is more that his experience with his father gave him strength. This sentence has opened up the little boy's life experience in the past few years. Whenever he doubted himself, Dad always used these words to encourage him to overcome difficulties, and it also gave him a rich life experience invisibly.
The relationship between children and their parents will be projected into society. The protagonist is thin and ridiculed. If his father is not accompanied by his heart and does not bring him such a rich experience, maybe he will spend his childhood in low self-esteem. The childhood life experience is gray and depressed, and the vitality in the body is suppressed. No exit. Even if the magician encourages him again, his first "independent fight" in his life may end in failure. Maybe he will not have the will to move the mountain and let his father "resurrect the dead."
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