Are you the one who loves more?

Elliot 2022-01-12 08:02:22

There is no ups and downs in the storyline, everything is developing so smoothly, and the contradictions are also developing. Two people with different lifestyles are destined to be separated, and love can sometimes be helpless. Although you know that losing you will be painful, changing your lifestyle requires courage and is not necessarily realistic. In fact, even if Samantha did not encounter a car accident, it would not be a perfect ending. People may only truly reflect on everything when they face the loss. Only then does he realize that he will not love. When he sees Samantha’s diary, he realizes that the degree of love is also different. .
I remember the sentence in the diary most: "There is one who loves more in love, don't be me!" The person who loves more in love has never struggled, and there should be many people who are reluctant to do this. Yes, because knowing that you love more means tacitly accepting that you have to endure more suffering. After all, love is destined to be more than just laughter. Every time I see Samantha frowning and looking at her boyfriend who ignores her feelings, I feel pain in my heart when I look at her eyes. Ming Ming Ai has worked so hard, but already faintly knows that everything will not be complete. They are destined not to be the kind of people who can get in touch with each other, they are destined to forget each other. Every time I feel that there is inexhaustible helplessness in her eyes, but she is still insisting, waiting for her sweetheart to give her an answer. Without that sentence, she always refuses to give up the last hope, even if she already has it in her heart. Answer.
After all, the world will not give us a chance to IF ONLY, so everything seems so hard-won in the movie. The movie gives the male protagonist an opportunity to learn about love. It is also a time for the world to reflect on yourself. Even if you have your own love, should you reflect on whether you can do better? For a person who loves himself deeply and buried his own past, maybe it is to heal his wounds so I don't want to mention it, but the so-called lover is someone who should not only share happiness. When he finally led Samantha into his world, did he also discover how much Samantha loved him? "I want to see where my beloved man grew up." Just this sentence, have you ever thought about it? When you love someone deeply, do you also want to experience his past when you listen to him telling funny stories about his childhood, hoping to experience his happiness and sadness at that time, and walk into his heart. If not, I think you are not the one who loves a lot.
The ending of the story is not destined to be perfect, because then the whole film is meaningless. People are destined not to lose, not to suffer, they will not really reflect on themselves, and they will not improve themselves. There is no one who is right or wrong, only who loves more, the person who loves does not regret having loved, but it is hard to face it alone.
I have read a friend who wrote: Cherish the person in front of you and love your lover wholeheartedly. God may not let you have the opportunity to love again. Take advantage of the present. If you want to hug each other, don't just hold hands; if you want to kiss each other, don't just hug; if you want to say I love you to the other person, don't just say like; if you want to have the complete love of the other person, don't be afraid of your complete giving . Love is like this. Use the enthusiasm of your life to love, and devote yourself to this true love of yours. Don’t have any worries or reservations. You will find that you get more than you lose.

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Extended Reading
  • Arch 2022-03-19 09:01:07

    Whether it is a production or an actor, I always feel that something is lacking.

  • Derek 2022-03-27 09:01:15

    Not as pretty as I thought

If Only quotes

  • Ian Wyndham: Close your eyes. Happy graduation.

    Samantha Andrews: Oh my God.

    Ian Wyndham: Some of the charms are old and some are new. That's a musical note, a violin. This one is a flower, what is no sense of matter at all, except it was exquisite much like yourself. Let's see... the train that we took today. And... that's the Eiffel Tower that you've always wanted to see. And... this frying pan, cause you are the only person that I know that can actually do the flipping thing. And... this one's a heart... my heart... it's yours now.

  • Ian Wyndham: I guess what I'm trying to say is... I want to soldier on. I really do. Okay?

    Samantha Andrews: No.

    Ian Wyndham: No what?

    Samantha Andrews: I don't... want to soldier on.

    Samantha Andrews: Ian, if I were to stay in London now, it would be for you. For us. And I would do that in a heartbeat if I knew we were really special.

    Ian Wyndham: We are.

    Samantha Andrews: Really? You never tell me how you feel or talk about yourself. You don't want to meet my family. You forgot my graduation. We run into my favorite student and you act as if he has something contagious.

    Samantha Andrews: Ian, I know you have the best intentions, but I feel like I'm a really high second priority to you. That hurts. And the worst part is I'm starting to get used to it.

    Ian Wyndham: I don't understand.

    Samantha Andrews: I know. That's what kills me.

    Samantha Andrews: If there had just been one day Ian, one day where nothing else matters but us.

    Ian Wyndham: I adore you.

    Samantha Andrews: I don't want to be adored, I want to be loved.

    Samantha Andrews: I can't do this anymore.