mismatch

Lottie 2022-06-03 17:17:54

Another ending after Cinderella's marriage. The female protagonist thinks that the male protagonist loves her, so marry him, and what she asks for is love; the male protagonist thinks that the female protagonist has nowhere to marry her, and she asks for a stable and well-behaved wife. But the male protagonist does not love her, in other words, the male protagonist only loves her to bring him the state of life; the female protagonist does not greedy vanity, and the quality of life that the male protagonist brings to her is only an accessory of her love. From the beginning, this was a relationship of mismatch. The contradictions caused by the dislocation of the two parties' appeals inevitably broke out after the heroine became pregnant. The appeal should not be criticized. If it is wrong, the fault of the male protagonist lies in the misjudgment of the female protagonist’s appeal, and the female protagonist is also wrong. From another perspective, when people overestimate their needs for material life and underestimate their needs for affirmation of their own value, there will be a mismatch in self-cognition. The heroine was dragged into the quagmire by the fact that she had nothing to do with her. The swallowing incident showed her obsession with "I can", hoping to affirm the value of self-existence through challenges to her body's functions. OCD is the external manifestation of her lack of self-worth. The childhood experience provided ample reasons for these two mismatches, and the anxiety that supported her was growing. I hope that after she leaves this marriage, she can reposition herself and her needs. Perhaps the dialogue with her biological father can help her reconcile herself.

In addition, this movie is probably a textbook of psychology and pathology lol

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Swallow quotes

  • Richie: We're pregnant.

  • Katherine Conrad: Are you happy, or are you pretending to be happy?

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