Coincidentally, on the day after watching "Kominsky Theory", Bush Sr. passed away, seven months after his wife left. In the finale of the play, Norman, played by Alan Arkin, suffers from madness because he still cannot accept his wife's death, and wanders the sidewalk in pajamas. As the police car passed by, the policeman rolled down the window and asked him if he needed help. His answer was: "I outlived my wife. That was not part of the plan." When Sauvignon Blanc. Are we seeing the fate of separation and aging, or the hearts that are willing and unwilling to love? Liao Yimei said in "The Flower of Pessimism": "I know that I will get old eventually. No one can prevent this from happening, and neither can your love. I will age from now on, and I will start quietly. , And then with great fanfare, until one day you will be surprised when you see me-the person you love will become another appearance." Husband and wife relationship is often more meaningful than parent-child relationship, perhaps because it does not "Dear", its essential and sufficient nature lies in acquired attraction and running-in, rather than physical prerequisites. So from time to time, it is not easy to see those who are so determined to be white-headed. Even though they have changed themselves in the years, they have become inseparable from each other, and it is not bad to prove that King Kong is not bad. After that, it's a bit chicken soup, I'm not good at writing chicken soup. "Kominsky Theory" is actually not a work full of chicken soup, it is more depicting the state of aging and its response. Developmental psychologist EH Erikson once pointed out that old age is a period of reflection on one's life, and the core challenge is "ego integrity v. despair" (ego integrity v. despair), the good trend is self-integration, which means looking back at your career and accepting the results. Therefore, the concept of "integrated personality" has emerged, which refers to the ability to accept that one is getting old and to look at the past, present, and future with a peaceful attitude. However, not every elderly person can achieve such a state of satisfaction, and physical and cognitive problems often lead to lower levels of emotion and self-esteem. Another psychologist, Laura Carstensen, thus put forward the socioemotional selectivity theory (socioemotional selectivity theory), which believes that the elderly can maximize their mental health by increasing their selectivity in social contact. The sympathy between Sandy and Norman, the two old Hollywood men, may prove the power of such support and compensation. I used to watch ITV's "Vicious" (Vicious), and I felt that even if you put aside the theme of sexual orientation and just watched the company of two old people, you would still feel very warm. The Kominsky Theory co-produced by Netflix and Warner this time once again brought me this feeling, even though it seems to be a dead end for toxic tongue to hurt friends. When I recommended it to my friends, I said that this is a deep comedy, but it's not so much a comedy, it's a life story. The crisis of old age and the wisdom of old age coexist.
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