I just watched this movie, and I was so depressed about the ending, why did I suddenly break up... But today’s new discovery made me suddenly open up!
It turns out that the words that the director asked the heroine to say on the last night were to break up, but in my opinion, these words are not affectionate farewells at all, they are more like affectionate confession. . . . . I used to be depressed because I always thought the plot was: after two people experienced so much and the heroine refused to give birth to monkeys for the hero in the name of love, they knew each other's intentions and were happily together, but later this In one year, no matter how hard the two people worked, they couldn't live together and they broke up. This is what I fear most! Both of them tried their best but regretted after all.
But Venus with a broken arm is more beautiful. From an artistic point of view, the ending of the film is completely fine, but I prefer a brave and romantic girl like Sanshun in "My Name is Jin Sanshun".
After the fat dessert chef Kim Samsun and the handsome boss of Dojin have a dreamy love that is as fragile as a dream, they are very afraid of losing. In a dream, I had a conversation with my father who had been dead for many years.
Dad: Didn't it mean happiness? What's wrong, Sanshun: I'm so happy. So happy. However, I am afraid of losing all of this. Dad: Sanshun. Sanshun: I'm afraid of losing. Worry to death. dad. Dad: You fool. I don't know if it will happen. What to worry about so early. Sanshun: Really, Dad: Of course. It’s too late to lead a happy life. Why do you think about such a stupid thing? Sanshun: To Dad: Don’t look back, don’t worry about the future, just work hard every day. The above sentence is probably the best answer by human beings so far when the ultimate question of "the meaning of life" is asked.
"My name is Jin Sanshun" is not a happy ending either. In the last episode, the happy life of getting married and having children only appeared in Sanshun's dream. It turned out to be a dream to finally have my own baking shop. But for the brave Jin Sanshun, the lack of results is not a bad result. The grandmother of the mountain god did not appear, and her boyfriend and mother opposed their marriage, but they still fell in love with each other, often noisy and then reconcile, they cried and laughed and talked about love, and occasionally thought about breaking up. Love is like this, but it is no longer scary. Sanshun finally said: "Now what I should do. I understand. Just try hard to make cakes. Try hard to love. It's like every day is the end. It's like never been hurt. Just like I love Jin Sanshun even more. "
Love, like everything else, has no right or wrong, and no fixed rules. Things are human, which means that as long as the environment is different, the people are different, the ideas are different, and the behaviors are different, it will determine the different direction of things. What this movie wants to say may be living in a New York environment. Between these two people, there is an insurmountable love estrangement. This is a more realistic view of love, but at the end, two people see through the window. The deep love that exudes is very romantic.
The two in the movie may indeed not be suitable for a long life. Entering the stage of lifelong companionship and birth of a monkey is also a false talk, but in any case, this is one of the true reflections of love.
However, if you think about it out of the movie, if this situation happened to you, would you work harder for love?
Is it for everyone to give up love to be our greatest effort for love?
Speaking of an answer recently seen from Zhihu, a lady with a good family background was very kind to her because of her poor boyfriend. When she had a cold and a fever, she made a meal for her in 20 minutes, and she was so touched by herself. Married, not only did she receive no such treatment after marriage, she was also bullied by her in-laws, and she was indifferent to being a husband.
It is normal for a rich girl in good conditions to not be able to cook, just like a young man from a poor family can cook a table of dishes in 20 minutes.
So what is love?
Now I feel that love can be anything, because in the eyes of some people, love is to persevere no matter what, but in the eyes of others, love is to abandon you in the name of loving you. There is nothing wrong with this, but in general, love is a kind of belief that can support oneself to overcome fear and do the hardest and most terrifying things for oneself.
In addition, as stated in Haruki Murakami's new book "Assassination of the Knight Commander", which I am reading recently, it seems that every marriage and love relationship has some unsolvable problems.
In fact, whether it is the gap between the rich and the poor, or the age gap, so that two people can attract each other, it is likely because of the difference between the two. Because of the differences, they are mutually curious, attracted and appreciated. It's just that while you are enjoying the extraordinary feelings brought about by these differences, please also accept the problems brought about by these differences, because they will always exist at the same time. When you start to work tirelessly to transform the other party, when the other party loses yourself, that is, it is time for you to lose the other party. Anyway, I hope that everyone can cultivate to the realm of harmony but different, and lovers will eventually become family members.
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