Kayla is a young, promising and beautiful photographer, but she always has an inexplicable desire to destroy, destroying the set objects, and destroying obviously good feelings. Until one time before her, others severely abandoned her, she began to suffer from severe insomnia and turned to a psychologist for help. Under the gradual anatomy of the psychologist, Kayla found the source of her problem-abandoned by her parents as a child and forced to leave her grandparents.
If it weren't for having a deep understanding of childhood and parental issues, I would only give Samsung. Originally a very good subject matter, but the shooting is not perfect, there is still a lot of room for improvement. The preconditions are too long, too many close-ups of Kayla, and the sad emotions are too deliberate. The dialogue between Kayla and the counselor is a typical essence, but the content is not enough. If the time is disrupted, all Kaira’s emotional problems and family issues are interspersed in the dialogue with the psychologist, like "Memories", it will be more exciting.
Excerpt two favorite lines, people who have the same problem will have a deep understanding.
"As children, when we are sad, adults will tell us not to cry; when we are angry, they will tell us'give us a smile', do you know the reason? In order to keep the peace at home. When we resent, they don't allow We are like this. So when we want to love, we find that our emotional system has been turned upside down and it cannot work. Sadness, anger, resentment, we are not exposed to anything, so now, how can we express love? "
"To have a sense of security, fear must first dissipate. The fear of being abandoned and the fear of loneliness. You have always carried these fears before. These interpersonal relationships weigh on every part of your interpersonal relationship, especially your romantic relationship. So, before they leave you, you leave them first. You want to say goodbye to them before they say goodbye to you. Because you don’t want to face the pain again."
In the movie, Kaila quickly walked out of her psychological shadow after getting to know herself. But in reality, even if you understand all the causes and consequences, how can it be so easy to let go. In the movie, Kayla’s parents heard her roaring vent and realized their mistakes and stopped hurting her. However, in reality, the injury is inertial and will not be interrupted so easily, or will not be interrupted at all. . In the movie, Kayla always leaves her boyfriend before they hurt herself. In reality, parents are more like Kayla. When the child wants to condemn her, she hurts her child with extreme terms and protects herself.
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