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Kaila had a very inexplicable dream.
She was on a construction site surrounded by workers, and the workers were very short and weird.
Suddenly, she lost her balance, fell from the high building under construction, and fell heavily into a puddle of muddy water.
The muddy water is very dirty and smelly, like sewage in a sewer.
Those strange workers just watched her fall, and no one helped.
Suddenly, a group of brides dressed in traditional costumes appeared, surrounded her, pointing at her and laughing.
Obviously mocking.
Then Kayla was awakened.
After waking up, she hurriedly took a cold shower.
She didn't understand why she had such a dream, so she told the psychiatrist Jahangir Khan who was "treating" her .
After listening to Kaila's narration of dreams and analysis of her self, the doctor asked her: "Have you ever bought a chair?
"Bought it."
"Then will you buy the first chair you see after entering the store?"
"Will not."
"Then it's over."
Only after seeing many different chairs can we buy the one that suits us.
Some are not suitable for use, and some are not suitable for use, so there is a process of selecting one by one.
Since there are countless chairs to buy a suitable chair, shouldn't we better choose and compare when choosing a life partner?
Kaila is a beautiful, sexy, smart, independent, thoughtful, and ambitious woman.
With her outstanding appearance, smart and capable, she naturally has many admirers.
As soon as she broke up with her boyfriend, she was confessed by another handsome colleague.
It's understandable that you are in a self-determined relationship.
But from the perspective of traditional Indian families, associating women with more than one man is simply dirty and inferior. They will be accused, ridiculed, criticized, and cast aside.
Kayla returned to her birthplace of Goa from Mumbai . Her career and relationships were unsuccessful , and she was criticized by the outside world. The psychological pressure was too high, which gave birth to such an absurd dream.
Although the movie "A Beautiful Life" has been labeled as a love movie, it is actually a small and refreshing film about the growth of women.
The heroine Kaila became sensitive and uneasy due to the shadow of childhood,
She is confident and cheerful on the surface, but she is closed in her heart, and she refuses to open her heart to anyone. The same is true for her family and love.
Especially when she treats her parents, she is not only alienated from the bottom of her heart, but also resentful.
The resentment towards her parents is her biggest knot and the root of all her emotional problems.
She was sent to her grandparents’ house by her parents when she was a child, but she didn’t get the father’s and mother’s love she deserved.
It was those years that polished all her expectations of her parents. At the age of only 6 years old, she decided not to communicate with her parents again.
In the end, why was she taken home again?
Not because of the more than 200 letters she wrote to her parents, or because of the fact that she is a daughter far away from her parents, but because she repeated the second grade of elementary school.
Repeated grades, in the eyes of her parents, she is a failure, a failure.
What parents can't tolerate most is their children's failure, that is, their children's inability to satisfy their vain vanity.
"Our son is the most well-behaved, very docile and obedient. He not only got a scholarship for advanced studies, but also went for an internship in a big company."
In the eyes of parents, a child who is obedient and meek is a good child.
When a child goes to a good university or enters a big company, it is a successful career.
Only children who develop according to their planned route are successful children.
It is so simple and straightforward for them to evaluate a junior.
The judgment of right and wrong is the same, "Your father was right to take her back, because she didn't repeat the second grade after taking her back."
"A Beautiful Life" is really a very beautiful and healing movie.
After watching it, you will smile, and the process of watching will be poked by many lines and scenes in the film.
For example, exposing the cognitive biases that almost all exist in the general public :
People who see a psychiatrist must be crazy and crazy. This is ignorance.
In fact, everyone has more or less psychological problems, and seeing a psychologist is not and shouldn’t be difficult to tell.
You’re so old, you don’t have a boyfriend, you don’t fall in love, you don’t get married,
People in the past would doubt if you were physically or mentally ill,
Now I still wonder, are you lace?
There are many gays in the entertainment industry, and Bollywood is called "Tonglywood".
hehe.
It's not that the show business is more gay, but the show business is more tolerant of it.
The marriage view shown in the film is also very positive.
Adults say that girls should find someone to marry while they are young, otherwise all the good men will be picked.
Moreover, if you get married before the age of 24, the divorce rate can be reduced by 50%.
is it?
"There is also a 100% chance of not getting a divorce, just not getting married."
The film also exposed the social problems in India.
For example, "discrimination against singles . "
The hostess was evicted by the landlord, not because she damaged the public property, nor because she owed the rent.
Only because of the decision of the apartment committee, only married couples can live there.
The director of "A Beautiful Life" is a woman, so she knows women well and the social problems that women face, as well as the confusion and perplexity of women of different ages.
The heroine of the film is a woman in her twenties. She is independent and has advanced thinking. She is not bound by tradition or imprisoned by decadent thoughts.
But the lack of childhood affection and lack of experience also made her confused about life.
She needs a spiritual mentor and someone to guide her further growth.
And the heroine Shahi in the director's another masterpiece "Indian English" is just the opposite of Kayla.
Shaxi is a married woman with a family husband and children.
She is the kind of traditional Indian housewife who does not have a job of her own, and takes care of her family life as the whole center of her life all day long.
Slowly, her husband and children began to laugh at her ignorance, and she also felt that she was out of touch with the times.
She decided to break free from the shackles and find herself.
The heroine of "Indian English" does not have the freedom and boldness of Kayla, but has the composure, introspection and wisdom that a mature woman should have.
The two films show seemingly two women with completely different personalities and experiences, but they are actually the unique charm of each woman at various stages and different problems and confusions at different stages.
Both "A Beautiful Life" and "Indian English" are very worth watching.
After watching it, I believe you will be moved by the plot and characters just like me.
In addition, the film still has the singing and dancing that Indian films have, but the format is very different.
The soundtrack and interlude are also super nice,
In addition, whether the heroine or the main male counterparts, the looks are super high, and they are truly pleasing to the eye.
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