The film is two and a half hours long. In the first one and a half hours, I basically couldn't understand what I was doing. I only knew that a hot-tempered female protagonist who would explode on the spot no matter what the parents said, would not listen to the change of her boyfriend. But it makes people want to read it through, because... the heroine is too good-looking too, every piece of clothes she wears is beautiful!
The heroine is a very talented and beautiful female photographer. She has made some movies, MVs, and short films. She thinks she can be an independent director and wants to make a movie of her own. However, she has never met anyone who admires her, and has always been a substitute photographer.
The film talked about her 5 relationships. The first boyfriend is a tall, rich and handsome, the owner of a restaurant. But the hostess had a one-night stand with another colleague during a photography job. After returning home, she told her boyfriend directly: I have sex with Laguli. The result is of course a breakup. India is a country where it is unacceptable to have sex before marriage. Any man who hears this is of course a choice... Don't forgive her.
The hostess and this one-night stand both like each other, and the one-night stand confessed like her, but they did not choose to be with him because of insecurity. Later this boyfriend got engaged to his ex-girlfriend. Since then, my temper has become more irritable, I can't understand any CP, and even the couple I meet on the roadside have to scold them to feel comfortable.
Because the landlord in Mumbai drove her out on the grounds that she must be married or have a family to rent his house. The hostess is even more depressed. In India, being single has even become a kind of last. In desperation, the hostess returned to the place where her parents lived.
Indian parents, like China, are very concerned about their children's marriage. They plan how to marry their daughters all day long, saying that they must get married before the age of 25, so the divorce rate will be 50% lower. The hostess's answer is very praise: There is a way to reduce the divorce rate to 100%, that is, not to get married. Because of the attitude of her daughter not getting a boyfriend if she doesn't get married, they even asked her suspiciously if she was lace. Like most traditional Chinese parents, Indian parents always hope that their children can have a stable job, preferably in the office. I always use the saying that I am your parents, and I kidnapped children for your good morals all my life, so I should follow them. I recently watched Ode to Joy, and Andy’s western view of the relationship between parents gave me a new look at the relationship between parents and children. Should we break through the shackles of tradition and live freely for ourselves once?
Later, by accident, the heroine met a psychologist. At that time in India, many people didn't even know the profession of psychologists, and they felt that it was a shame to see a psychologist, and those with brain problems would go. This society has really too much resistance to psychotherapy. I am a college student and take over the Mental Health Department at school. Whenever someone hears the name of my department, they always look at it in a strange way, and they always say it is "big health care". Although it is an open era, not many people accept this from the heart. It is said in the play that when we have a cold, fever, pneumonia, cancer, and sickness, it is natural to see a doctor in a white coat. Isn’t our brain a part of our body? It should also be a matter of course to see a doctor when you have psychological problems.
The hostess suffered from insomnia all day because of her ex-boyfriend, so she went to receive psychotherapy. During the treatment, the hostess met her third boyfriend, a singer, a handsome man who lives in music all the time, and even their daily conversations are expressed through music. Of course, in the early days of love, the heroine will feel fresh and happy. There is a boy who is by your side all day writing songs for you with a guitar. Think about it and feel romantic. But a long time will always make people feel bored, even to the point where they want to explode when they hear the sound of music. So they both over.
Later, the psychologist enlightened her step by step, took her out of the shadow of childhood, eliminated her fear, and said hi to life again. She handled the relationship between her parents, picked up the camera again, and everything slowly returned to its beautiful appearance. The time for the last treatment soon came, and the hostess found that she had fallen in love with the psychologist hopelessly and confessed to him. In fact, the doctor also fell in love with this special girl, but he still rejected her. This is the most basic professional ethics of being a psychologist.
Later, the heroine adapted her and the psychologist's story into a movie, and it was very successful. At the screening party, I met my fifth boyfriend, and the whole show finally ended.
In my opinion, this so-called healing movie is indeed very healing. But the development of the plot is a bit awkward. For example, every time after listening to the doctor's poisonous chicken soup, the heroine suddenly became clear, and then suddenly and smoothly solved the problem that had troubled her for n years. But the reality is: I know the truth, but my concubines can't do it.
There are also two and a half hours for the whole film, which is really procrastinating. If it weren't for the beauty of the heroine, I wouldn't be able to finish it. However, compared to those Indian movies that dance and sing inexplicably, a good life can be regarded as a clear stream.
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