"A Beautiful Life": Know yourself, complete yourself
Indian film "A Beautiful Life": Kaira is a rare female photographer in the show business circle, free and independent, during a foreign shooting process, she fell in love with the producer Raguwendira, when she thought that the other party also likes herself , But there was news of Raguwendira’s engagement, but he didn’t know that it was his cold attitude towards feelings that made the other party retreat. The heartbroken Kayla moved back to the city where his parents lived-the beautiful Goa. Faced with work, love, and parents, Kaila felt more and more difficult to adapt. She lost control of her emotions and had long insomnia. She decided to see a psychologist. There she met the humorous psychologist Jahangir Khan. The story is based on This really unfolds... The
film starts from three aspects: career choice, love and marriage, and native family, and takes the heroine Kayla step by step to get to know herself and complete herself.
Regarding the choice of career path, the
reason why many people succeed is that they have chosen the harder path?
The coveted job opportunity is right in front of him, but he has to work with his ex-boyfriend Raguwendira and his fiancée. Kayla was caught in a dilemma, emotionally telling her to give up this rare job opportunity and don't embarrass herself; but rationally told herself to seize this great opportunity to persevere. For this reason, Kaila couldn't sleep peacefully every night.
When she confided to Dr. Jahangir Khan, a story and words told by Dr. Jahangir Khan made her realize that the difficult road is not the only way. So Kayla refused the opportunity to Raguwendila and let him go. She was finally able to fall asleep.
As the saying goes, all roads lead to Rome, and there is more than one way to reach the ideal shore. When our abilities are not enough, we can choose to practice internal strength and skills first, and then set off when our heart says it's okay. In that way, we can walk on the path of the goal more calmly and calmly, without the inner anxiety and anxiety, and the journey will become easier.
Regarding the persistence of love and marriage
In India, the concept of love and marriage is quite conservative and narrow. The public opinion requires women to be the same, and there should be only one man in their lifetime. But Kayla is a woman who loves freedom and independence. She has had two boyfriends. Because of this, she was influenced by the eyes of society, and she suffered from nightmares. She came to Dr. Jahangir Khan to explain her dream, and Dr. Jahangir Khan comforted her. Even if we go to the store to buy a chair, we have to try a few chairs to choose the one that suits us, not to mention the choice for a lifetime. Your partner should take your time until you find a suitable one.
After hearing this, Kayla sighed and expressed the hope that the whole world can hear this chair theory. If they understand the chair theory, they will no longer judge others. What a beautiful world!
At this time, Dr. Jahangir Khan’s response was a clear pen in the whole film, stating that being a man (not just a woman), throughout his life, the most important thing is to know oneself.
Yes, only when we know ourselves and know our own interests and hobbies can we truly understand what we are insisting on, what we are obsessed with, and what we are looking for. Only when people understand themselves can they truly love themselves and not live in the words and eyes of others. Because being yourself is a very happy and beautiful thing. We must know that our beauty and value never live in the words of others, nor are we swayed by others.
After Dr. Jahangir Khan’s reconciliation, Kayla no longer felt hesitated and uneasy about other people's remarks, and gradually increased his confidence in himself, and ignited his enthusiasm for love.
At a party, Kaila was attracted by a talented singer, and the two fell in love at first sight and began dating. But soon, Kayla found out that each other's temperaments were different. When getting along, Kaila likes two people to stay together quietly and chat, while Rumi plays music CDs or sings non-stop. At first Kaila chose to be silent, but Dr. Jahangir Khan told her that she didn't have to bear it and she should tell her true thoughts directly. Kaila worried that doing so would affect her feelings. Dr. Jahangir Khan asked back: "What's the point of tolerating it improperly?"
Endure blindly, endure it in the end, I am no longer me, but me in his eyes. Living in the expectations and demands of others is painful and depressing, like a bird in a cage, losing freedom and self. Such a life is meaningless.
I think of the heroine of the Indian movie "Queen's Journey". She was originally a lovely sunshine girl, but gradually lost herself in love. She was abandoned a few days before marriage... She was in pain and desperation and embarked on a period. The long-awaited journey finally found myself back. The film is full of exoticism. The heroine was portrayed very realistically for her loss of love and her later self-awakening. I was moved to tears several times while watching the film. The most pleasant thing is of course the ending. When her fiance found her and expressed regret and asked to start again, wow, that section was really enjoyable. Friends who are interested can go and see it. The heroine’s response and choices are really awesome. !
The reconciliation with the native family is a reconciliation with oneself.
After psychological counseling, Kaira's mood has been greatly improved, but Dr. Jahangir Khan felt the fear in Kaira's heart. On the surface, Kaira's choice is free and autonomous, but in essence, this choice is controlled by fear. Because she was hurt by her parents when she was a child, in order not to feel abandoned again, Kaila has never dared to put her heart into love in love, and her feelings have stagnated. At the same time, Kayla behaved stubbornly about her parents' disapproval of her chosen profession, and this is precisely the revelation of her extremely fragile and sensitive heart.
Zhao Youting, who played Ye Hua in the TV series "Three Lives III, Ten Miles of Peach Blossoms", once expressed on Weibo: Being able to make lifelong choices so easily is the value I yearn for. In fact, in the face of major hurdles and choices in life, how can we make choices easily? It depends on how deep we explore our lives.
Parents are the source of a child's life. Whether we admit it or not, parents have a great influence on their children's lives. If we want to make the right choice easily, we must maintain a good communication relationship with our parents. The hatred of parents is actually a punishment for oneself. Because my parents are my source, to reconcile with my parents is to reconcile with myself, and to let go of my parents' faults is to let me go.
It is worth mentioning that the director and screenwriter of the film is Gauri Shinde. Her film focuses on the living environment and growth of modern women in a civilized society. "Indian English" is also her work. It tells how the heroine finds her own value in addition to the identity of the wife and mother. It is worth seeing!
The heroine of "Indian English"
finally, Kayla realized her original dream and became a director. The wonderful film she directed won warm applause and great affirmation from relatives and friends, and also met a prince who truly understood her...A wonderful life begins with knowing oneself and finally completing oneself!
(The original platform booklet, author: Flying Sheep 11)
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