Any relationship requires both parties to grow together. The most difficult thing to practice is to grasp the intimate relationship. I have told my family more than once that a person's life partner is not necessarily limited to one, because we have experienced it all our lives, even if the experience is the same. Due to different births, there may be conflicts that may be large or small. This does not mean that I am not loyal to love and family. It means that I admire happy love and family relationships. Fortunately, I was born in a good age. Even if the environment does not agree with me, I don’t feel the need to criticize me.” "Bad thoughts", I hope that people who hear me say that, the first reaction is not that I am unwilling to pay tolerance and change. I just feel that the maintenance of certain relationships does not have to follow a specific form, even if it has been verified from ancient times to the present. It’s the best way, but don’t just work hard and sacrifice just for the so-called "best solution".
Women often indulge in happiness and can't help themselves, even if the happiness is so short or the hazy sentiment in disguise, this is not a bad thing. I think this film is connected end to end, invisibly looping. Although there is no such obvious guide, I personally think that the heroine in the film will be the role of the fake heroine in the next relationship, or the fake heroine will be the next time. The role of a true male protagonist in a relationship, everyone needs space and time to grow up actively or passively. If you don’t want to, it’s not shameful to stay in an illusory space and enjoy the love you want. One day after all You will grow up and take on the family and relationship responsibilities you need to face. If the character remains the same, but entering into the establishment and experience of another new relationship required by each person should not be regarded as a betrayal, although There are two couples in the film, but in fact there is only one couple. This is not a conspiracy. You can think of the illusory resort as a corner of their hearts, and what fits the society in the end is the form they show, the actual The above four characters all hold the key to get out of the cabin. That key is called "maturity and responsibility". When you learn to love, when you learn to be tolerant, and learn to protect each other with your kindness, you will come out of this An apartment! This is why the false heroine and the true hero can get out of the apartment, not how much they love each other, but that they are both able to abandon their naive, vain, and uneasy selves, and learn to love and tolerate truly! At the beginning, Ethan was begged by Sophie to return to the apartment again. In the fear of losing, he always compromised and loved without a bottom line. Of course, there was a reason for this. In his marriage, he was always bound by the framework of perfect imitation. At the end of the derailment, he deeply concealed his appeals and dissatisfaction. On the surface, he catered to Sophie to play the role of a model couple. In fact, he was struggling in his heart until he walked out of the apartment. He was completely calm about the relationship between them. , Said aloud his demands: "I am not easy to get along with, and I am very stubborn. I know I have been defending myself. I have failed your expectations... I have to bear most of the responsibility for the situation like this. But listen to me, I am your husband, you are my wife, I will not let you go... We are in a mess, but I like us like that, I don’t want perfection, I want to be ourselves, so I want to Philip... Just give me a chance, I love you! "The male protagonist has been holding her wife and carefully protecting the weak self. He knows exactly what the image his wife wants to become, but he thinks it is not him. He loves Sophie, so this This time he boldly confessed that in addition to his unwillingness to stay in that weird apartment, I read more that Ethan really didn’t want to let go of the person he loved. He loved her. No matter what, he always loved that company. Sophie next to him, even if he can't leave, he hopes Sophie can stay with him! On the other side, no matter how Ethan is accused of making things difficult, the fake Sophie exudes a warm smile. She was previously restricted for love. In the cabin, I think she is also a little girl who is self-willed and indulges in love. She has learned love and tolerance through time alone. The hardest part of the relationship is that we are in the two completely different selves that we experience alone. Collision and balance, no matter what kind of situation you are in, you know how to take care of each other. Only by learning this way can you graduate from this apartment and use this key to open the door to going out, because love makes our relationship and more important. The important thing is to mature our minds.
I can understand the role of Sophie very well. She is firm and obsessed with love. Faced with her husband’s derailment, she also took the initiative to find a solution to the problem. She can’t bear to watch the fact that love has deteriorated. She knows that her husband loves her. She also loves her husband deeply. She is confused and at a loss. She thinks that the way to save their marriage is to find the impulse and passion of love. In the end, she finds solace from the fake male protagonist’s apology. In fact, she just wants to find a cure In fact, she has always known that there is a greater part of her responsibility when there is a relationship problem. This is also the reason why she actively seeks to save her marriage, but when she hears others comfort her and consider her, I know that it is the reason for her true love. She was relieved from her own guilt and perfectionism.
None of the four roles are fake. Those who walked out of the apartment are all real. They are all students who graduated from this apartment and got the marriage pass. But in the end, I still feel a little bit sad and blank because of us. The most difficult part is that part of the young, unruly, brave, and reckless self, when you want to say goodbye, you just want to quietly watch him go away and miss him.
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