At the end, my heart is choked.

Vinnie 2022-01-11 08:01:46

Watching this film, I enjoy it with a relaxed mentality after being overly exhausted. At the beginning, the protagonists who are not young and beautiful and the plot that always feels too ordinary are what I have expected. Even at the end, I still hold it. The mentality that can end with a perfect reunion, but until the end, my heart is stuck.
I believe that the male lead loves the female lead, and the female lead loves the male lead. After reading some film reviews, some people think that the female protagonist fell in love with the fake male protagonist after experiencing this, and no longer loves the real male protagonist. I personally do not agree with this view.
First, when the fake male protagonist said the touching words to her, her eyes showed that she was truly moved by those words, so that she could not restrain herself to find the fake male protagonist for a tryst. But in fact, the touching words are definitely based on the feelings of the female protagonist towards the male protagonist. We don’t hold grudges or brood on someone casually, not because we are magnanimous, but because those people are nothing to us. The basis of any emotional relationship is that you care about each other. Only if you think you have a connection, you will attach more emotions to this connection because of the effect of each other's actions.
Second, when the true male protagonist wants to fight for the last time and confessed to the female protagonist that I am your husband and you are my wife, the demeanor and smile of the female protagonist means that she is tempted. She forgives her husband for his unfaithfulness. , I also understand that I still want to spend my life with this man.
However, many people will ask why she didn't show herself when the male lead was chosen by mistake. When the male lead drove away, she still had a chance. Why didn't she explain to herself. Frankly speaking, on the one hand, I think she does have illusions about the fake male protagonist, but more, I want to say that this woman is extremely immature, which can be seen from many places. Although she forgives her husband's infidelity on the surface, she still resents in her heart, more because she is the most naive type of person who is innocent, pursuing perfection and untainted feelings. Such people can be called mental cleanliness. But this kind of people is also the most selfish in some respects. They only care about whether their lives outside of themselves are as clean as ever, but they don’t review whether they are clean. When she was exposed, I was surprised why she hated men first. The Lord’s trial without review is the first to derail him. Her proposal to return to that place and her pursuit of excitement in her marriage all show that she is an immature marriage bearer.
I think that not just marriage, including family, friendship, and love can be perfect. The perfection in the eyes of others is just superficial perfection. Under such perfection, how many atonement after betrayal, forgiveness after injury, and disappointment. Persistence and a trace of confidence in despair are not understandable by those fragile marriages. It is not that they cannot have a perfect and complete marriage, but they are incapable and have no blessings.
Back to the plot, I have nothing to say about the fake male protagonist. I don't think any woman who is a little sensible will approach such a person. The true mistress is not wrong. The fault is that she is too naive and naive. Of course, if she is happy in that ending, then she can also be said to be the most sensible, smart, and mature. But I think she will not have a good ending.
As for the fake heroine, she is smart, mature, and sensible.
What makes me feel so embarrassed and helpless is why a love that doesn't seem to have made mistakes has to be made so embarrassed and helpless. What's stuck in my heart is that the male protagonist's reason and time have been restored, but he can't get a real feedback. He finally accepted the ending.
This movie leaves a lot of room for people to imagine.
If technology really develops to that point in the future, if the person you love has some shortcomings that are difficult to erase for you, and the other party agrees, will you choose to change her with modern technology?
Society is developing too fast, but no matter how fast it is, it is not faster than the expansion of human desire and greed. When is a head? Yes, isn’t your so-called painful head the happy head? Because you have two heads, you have to rush towards the one you yearn for, but in fact, will there be only one A head, a head turned into nothingness, no resentment, no love, no shortcomings, no surprises, no disappointments, no touches, no obstacles that force you to persevere, and of course there will be no inseparable separation after each other.
I hope that in this real world, there won't be an ending that makes my heart frustrated.
On August 4, 2016,
I always thought that my film review was more like an afterthought, just writing my inner words. Unexpectedly, after writing it for so long, I have slowly forgotten a film review of the plot, and I have been able to get so many affirmations, doubts, refutations and inspirations from so many friends one after another. I am very happy. There are still people who are willing to think with me and share your opinions. I saw some comments today. I am late to reply because I haven't written a film review for a long time and I have paid too much attention to it. After reading it today, I got some new inspiration.
I want to ask my friends a question, if you have to experience such a life in the real world, and you can only choose one role from these four people to play, who would you choose? (Note that you can choose these four people regardless of whether you are a male or female. These are four situations where four different people make different choices under different personalities and wisdom. The roles of male and female are not defined, which means that the false heroine can also be an attacker. A savvy family who escapes cleverly, the fake male protagonist can also be a frustrated villain with low EQ and insufficient intelligence. The true female protagonist can also be an innocent boy whose true feelings have been broken by his beloved woman, a real man. The Lord can also be a female character who looks calm and rational, hoping to save the marriage.)
Speak freely. Let me talk about me first, I am willing to interpret the life experience of a fake heroine in a movie.

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The One I Love quotes

  • Ethan: Well, I'm not an aardvark.

    Ethan: [fake] And *I* am not a gorilla.

  • Sophie: [fake] Are you more concerned with the experiences that me and your Ethan shared or are you more concerned with what I know about the experiences that you and my Ethan shared?