Not every woman can be as brave as Shaxi. When the son fell, her useless appearance after being blamed by her husband may seem too fragile to us. Isn't it just scratching the skin? If it was me, I would definitely retort, "Then why did you go? Why do you blame me?" But for a dedicated mother, this incident is not just as simple as a child wrestling, she has been condemned by a strong sense of responsibility. . Seeing her sobbing outside the room late at night, I really want to run to her, grab her shoulder and tell her, you have the right to pursue what you want, you have the right to accomplish what you want to do, you have Right, you have right! Because you are also a person! Why has the word "mother" that warms anyone's heart become the shackles of so many women? Because she is a mother, she unconditionally undertakes all housework. Because she is a mother, she has no complaints about working hard for her family and her children. Because she was a mother, she didn't hesitate to let go of the things she once loved. Because she is a mother, even if she is ridiculed by her family, ridiculed or even humiliated, she can only swallow her anger and endure it!
From the happy face of Shaxi when she went to deliver desserts in the opening movie, we know that she is a smart and enthusiastic woman. When her husband told her not to make desserts, if I remember correctly, her original words were "Do you want to deprive you of the last thing I like?". I don’t know what kind of mentality her husband has. It may be embarrassing, it may be that his wife is too tired, or, as he himself said, he does not want his wife’s craftsmanship to be tasted by others. Men are more or less possessive, which is completely understandable and is enjoyed by many women. However, when possession becomes deprivation, the balance of marriage will tilt to one side. Slowly, you will feel that you are becoming more useless and worthless. Even when I was young, I would pull the big flesh and blood with my hands, and use the mouth that you touch every day to say the most vicious words, and the face that kisses every day shows the most indifferent expression. Shaxi said, "A man cooking is art. A woman cooking is housework." I can only sigh, how many men can be like that Frenchman and say, "No, that's all the same. Because of love, talent Make delicious dishes. "Because of love, I can work hard for my family every day. Because of love, I can do the chores at home without going out every day. No matter how high-end and high-end work men do, and how trivial things women do, it’s because of their commitment and love to each other when they put on the ring. What qualifications are there to laugh at the other party?
Shaxi finally used her perseverance to prove to everyone at the wedding, especially her family, that she could speak English and was as beautiful as they said. I was stunned, and cried. Everything is beautiful again. But after reading it, I still feel a little heavy. Compared with reality, all this is too smooth or even too dramatic. English is fine, but what about other skills? For her limited circle, going to New York for four weeks does not happen every day. The most likely thing to happen is to return to a peaceful and repeated life again. The world is always evolving, and the husband who works outside sees far more than her. Before, he said in front of everyone, "My wife was born as Radu." Later, he said, "My wife can speak some English too." Perhaps a little pessimistic, I personally hope that her husband can keep that shock and moving for a long time, but as the days go by, people become forgetful and numb.
I remembered a time when my mother called and told me excitedly about the whole process of moving to the place where she had worked. At the end, she did not forget to add, "I can do well without his help." I have mixed feelings in my heart. My thoughts drifted to the old photo album that I found occasionally when I was 10 years old. It was full of black and white photos of my mother when she was working. The hair is equal to the ears, and the suit is straight.
Women, can't be too complacent.
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