What role do lies play in life? Is it a catalyst for feelings or a crematorium for happiness? Everyone has different answers in their hearts.
When we all discussed white lie, how did you deal with white lie? Who will you lie to? Why are you lying? No one can guarantee that he has never lied once in his life.
Thinking about it carefully, we lie, but subconsciously think that lying is good for us. Let's start with this film.
Philip is the head of a post office in Provence. In order to cater to his wife Juliet, he racked his brains to transfer to the Riviera, but priority is given to colleagues with disabilities, so Philip lied-to apply as a disabled person. Mobilize work. Of course, he was finally put on help, which directly led to his deportation to the "terrible" northern part-Bolger to work.
Going home on the weekend, when his wife asked about his life in Bolger with concern, Juliet’s recognition of Bolger was not trusted by Juliet, thinking that this was what Philip had said to comfort her, and even more convinced that Bolger was a cold world. Frozen, where the common people were ignorant and ignorant, Philip lied and lied to prove this idea for his wife.
When the work unit and postman Anthony talked about his wife, Philip lied that his wife Juliet was suffering from depression. In fact, Juliet is not melancholic, but her personality is a little dull.
At home, Philip also lied to his friends, because he lied to Juliet, he had to use other lies to support the original lie-to speak of the kind and enthusiastic Bolger colleagues as ignorant and uncivilized.
When Juliet offered to live with him in Borger, in order to circumvent the lie, colleagues helped him lie and took Juliet to a mine in the country to feel the desolation there and the "barbarism" of the people.
At this point, the lie can finally end. Because Juliet found it.
I mentioned before that we lie because we subconsciously think that lying is good for us. See it! To work, to lie, and to disregard morality. In order to enjoy the rare warmth of his wife, he lied, slandered colleagues and friends, and distort the facts. In order to save face, lie and describe his wife as a depression patient. In order to maintain the status quo, lie, lie to everyone, and use lies to round up the lie until the lie is broken.
I have seen a lot of lies.
In order to calculate the other, one person only has to make up a few small lies.
One person can tell a big lie for the good of another.
Going back to the previous question, is lying a catalyst for feelings or a crematorium for happiness?
We often agree with white lies. Kind people will comment against friends' exaggerated hairstyles, vulgar nail polish, and cheap clothes against their will. We often lie to protect ourselves. Do you like him/her? No. But every time he/she is checked whether he/she is online, every Weibo of him/her, and all his/her dynamics. Be picky about the objects he/she likes and find reasons why they are inappropriate. [Laughter]
There are many people who lie, ranging from politicians to big names in business, from street vendors to neighbourhoods, from parents and teachers to relatives, friends and dogs. Some people are used to lying, and then they are good at lying. Some people are clear and straightforward and don't know how to play tricks.
Some people lie to survive. Some people's lies make people gritted their teeth and want to eat their flesh. Some people lie because of habit. Some people lie because of love and hatred.
There are so many lies in our lives, who have they achieved and destroyed?
There is no clear result when discussing whether or not to lie. But I want to say, before you lie, please carefully weigh the benefits of that lie and the consequences of the lie. If you dare to lie, you must dare to bear it. For example, for false advertisers, if a lie leads to human life, it is better to be honest, and it is considered to be a blessing for the children and grandchildren.
Personally, I can't guarantee that I will never lie, but I do not approve of lying, including white lies. Rather than telling white lies, I would rather keep talking and just say that I don't have any insights. Because I can't afford it, in my worldview, a lie will always be pierced by the truth.
To lie or not to lie, that is a question.
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