Forgive yourself VS forgive others

Gracie 2022-01-09 08:02:05

Recently I am confused about a question. Which is easier to forgive yourself or to forgive others?
Yesterday, I watched "Boy A" which gave Andrew the best actor. Andrew's acting skills surprised me, because I only noticed Andrew's handsomeness in "Social Network", but I didn't expect his acting skills to be so good. Andrew plays Boy A. His real name is Eric. Little Eric could have grown up like ordinary children, but unexpected changes kept appearing. His mother had cancer, and his father lacked the basic care for him. He was affected by bad boys in senior grades. When threatened, the helpless Eric met Pillip, who changed his fate. He helped Eric solve his troubles, but he did not know that what he brought to Eric was a trouble that could change his fate...The
movie began when he was released from prison. Interspersed fragments of memories in the movie, let us continue to understand him now and him in the past, and gradually show the full picture of the story to the audience. To be honest, I like this approach, and many great movies have chosen to use this approach to show the relationship between the past and the present.
In fact, this movie made me realize some things that I rarely considered before. When a person commits an unforgivable mistake in the eyes of everyone, our attitude is mostly negating everything about this person, thinking that he is a devil, but we watch What we get is only a result or a part of the event, but this part is terrible. We did not see what really caused the event, and what happened to the demon in our eyes. Maybe this is just a result of the butterfly effect. Because we don’t understand everything behind this, we naturally accuse, hate and even deprive this life. What right do we have to do? This reminds me of a report about a campus murder in Nanping, Fujian. This report tells the life of this inhumane murderer in the eyes of everyone, and introduces how gentle he was once. He will help others and like it. Playing with children and so on, what led to his current destiny was a series of changes. After reading that report, I was actually very shocked. I actually feel that we have no right to blame him because he is just one of the evil consequences of this deformed society. The parents of those innocent children certainly cannot forgive this demon, but the real demon is not the murderer or the murderer’s boss, but the society.
The boy in the movie finally chooses to end his life because he cannot be forgiven by everyone. In fact, he cannot forgive himself in his heart, but what is wrong with him? Now it’s easy to see some radical remarks on certain people and things on the Internet. In fact, why bother? Things are often not as simple as what we see or imagine. Since we can’t talk about being fully informed, what right do we have to criticize and criticize? Choose not to forgive?

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Boy A quotes

  • Michelle: [showing her breasts posing for Jack's photograph] What?

    Jack Burridge: [laughing] You're fucking nuts. Carry on. Keep going! Keep going! Keep going!

  • Michelle: [about Jack's local hero news in the paper] Hey hero! Look what I've got!

    Jack Burridge: [embarrassed] Horrible, horrible.