Hold your hand gently

Brook 2022-01-09 08:02:12

Adam.

It is the best love movie since 2010.

It has been a long time since I watched a movie about love alone without wiping my tears and saying a word.

This night, I hid and got a happy experience.

I don't want to watch the empty connotation of the avatar, let the ghosts who are greedy for vanity go to death. 200 movie tickets are exchanged for 2 hours of visual bombardment and a blank brain.

I'd rather hug the cushions and quietly plunge into the world called Adam.



The lyrics are well written. When we were young, someone helped us arrange everything. When we grew up, we had to do it ourselves, and suddenly found that we were alone.



Adam is a boy with social phobia (should he be called a boy? He is 29 years old, but still a child at heart)

living alone in a small apartment.

One day a beautiful girl, Beth, moved in, and they had a relationship.



A good movie can tell a simple story that is warm and moving.

I guess I can understand the reason Beth likes Adam. He is not handsome, has no money, is good-tempered, and withdrawn, but he is simple, kind, direct, and always as pure and sincere as a child.

On the night when he made her first appointment, she was sitting alone at the top of the stairs, biting her fingers, and waiting for her to come back. Hearing the sound of the door lock, he stood up tremblingly and said to her, I'm sorry, tonight...tonight is too busy. I couldn't meet your friend...but...I have something I want you to see.

She opened the door, and it was a blue starry sky.

Fascinated by astronomy, he projected an image of space in the living room, the stars of the Milky Way galaxy, and the meteors flying across the sky, but his commentary is not romantic at all. What is light-years away, and how many are after the decimal point. How many zeros and how many seconds are the time for the formation of space...

If I were Beth, I would also feel cute.

The mind is so simple, not to use any fancy means to please you, but to really want to share good things with you.



Because you are the person I like, so I want to be nice to you and give you all the good ones.



It is not a few thousand roses or a diamond ring of many carats, but a simple but passionate heart.



If there is no heart, what love is there to talk about.

They're all fake, they're all here to deceive people.



Another moving night was the day Beth’s father was sentenced. Adam was furious at Beth’s white lie when he found out that the last time the parents met was Beth’s white lie. The two broke up after a quarrel. He realized his recklessness after thinking about it. Although there was heavy snow outside, I still walked a few kilometers to find her at her home.



For a child, as long as he finds that the other party lied once, it is easy to lose trust in the other party.

And Adam is such a child. Before, he devoted himself wholeheartedly and completely trusted, and then suddenly found out that the girl he loved would cheat too. She couldn’t accept it for a while, threw things, and made a big fuss, but the uncle said, you have to understand the difference. , Some in the world are pure liar, and some are lies for love.



So he took the rose and stuffed it in his clothes, braved the heavy snow to find his girl. He was going to go to California to work. He couldn't lack the most important rib on his body.



When struggling at the door, Beth's father Liar said, "Don't go, don't wrong yourself with such a man, there are many better choices."

But at this moment Beth yelled, you shut up, you have no right to make a decision for me, you liar.

Dad is a liar because he deceived them and had an affair with another beautiful young girl. This is not a lie of love, this is pure deception.



Beth followed Adam away.

Although he may not be able to understand the overtones in other people's words like other men, maybe he sometimes doesn't even know that others are joking and answer some questions too seriously, maybe he doesn't know how to get along with people, even job interviews Ask her to help with training.

But this person is worthy of love.

In this world, there are fewer and fewer people worthy of love.

Love is a kind of spiritual thing, which can only be obtained if it transcends the material. And how many people can say, I know love, I have love?



Yesterday, a friend repeatedly asked me what the girls are looking for when looking for someone, and what are the conditions.

I couldn't answer for a while.

So I had to say honestly, I don't know. If you ask me, I will say, I don't look at the conditions.



I have never heard that a kind of love can be obtained by negotiating terms.

If this is the case, then this kind of love must be as cold as money, diamond rings and all other substances, without temperature, and it takes no effort at all, and it is not worth remembering if it is lost.



At the end, Adam received the new book from Beth.

The title is Adam, and it tells the story of three raccoons living in New York's Central Park.

Reading the book, he smiled. Behind him is the bright sunshine and blue sky of California.

Finally, we don’t know if Beth is with him, because at that time she said, I can’t go to California with you just because you need me.

But in the end, we saw Adam’s growth. On the first day we met Beth, he was the silly boy who was sitting on the steps and watching the girl carrying the heavy object. Now, he would offer to help. Big boy.



If we don’t know how to love at the beginning, can we not love?

No. It's not like this.

Love is also an ability that can be acquired through learning.

If the person around you is worthy of your love.

Then please squeeze TA's hand and make up your mind to learn how to love together.

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Extended Reading

Adam quotes

  • [last lines]

    Beth Buchwald: Adam, his mother, and his father were a family of talking raccoons that lived in the middle of New York City. They didn't really belong there, but there they were.

  • Harlan: Liars is all you gonna run across in this world. A man's gotta learn the difference between just plain liars and liars worth lovin'.

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