The emotional dispute in this film is something that many families or couples will encounter.
The quarrel caused by the disagreement of the three views is usually not right or wrong. Is it wrong for the heroine to want a better material life? The hero just wants to be an ordinary person and do things he likes to do. Is it wrong?
If you look at the split, you would think this is a normal thing, but if two collide with each other, the friction will definitely not be the spark of love, but the explosion of the nuclear bomb. You may think that the lottery is the distribution of their love. The end, but I think this is just a fuse, speeding up the death of love. Without this lottery, it is a chronic death. Just like a girl breaking up, the reason for breaking up is just the last straw that crushes the camel.
The male protagonist has already said this, "Before you would hug me back home and ask me how long it’s been today. The last time was five years ago." Important.” This is a difference in the concept of love, and they don’t understand each other’s needs. The male protagonist donated 10,000 US dollars and did not discuss with the heroine. The heroine threw away the beloved chair and did not discuss with the heroine. The communication is no longer there. From nothing to nothing to say, this is not a dull period. The unremarkable period is that even if you don't say a word, I understand you with one look, and it is enough to have you by your side.
In the conversation before buying the lottery ticket, the hostess said, "A bedroom is not my goal." The host replied, "I think a bedroom is also very good." This is a different outlook on life. The conversation in the hair salon "I'm almost impatient, after all, I like money", and this male protagonist can't satisfy the female protagonist. Everyone knows how much the police pays, and the male protagonist did not talk to the female protagonist after the conversation. Through communication, when such a big problem arises, the male protagonist just expresses his own opinions and then perfunctory matters. Then this problem still exists, and then the conflict will escalate and the feelings will be exhausted.
After that is the lottery distribution, the male protagonist believes that he must keep his promise, even though it is 2 million US dollars. The hostess thinks that her own interests are more important, not to mention that it is not worth it for a stranger. This is a difference in values. Although it was finally divided, the values of the heroine have not changed. She said "what can I get if I allocate 2 million dollars?" The hero used sweet words to prevaricate the past.
Then divorce after the fuse of the lottery is an inevitable result. If there is no fuse, the ending should be even worse. The heroine does not have the capital to talk about divorce, and the man does not have the courage to say divorce. Two unloved people come to the end of life together. What a terrible thing. As for the derailment of the male protagonist, you can understand it as a mental derailment, or testing on the edge of the derailment. There is indeed a mistake. This point will not be discussed in depth.
After reading this, I believe you have understood a lot. This is also a common topic. The hormone of love can cut off all rational thinking, and only retains the emotional impulse. After the baptism of time, you will discover how different two people get along. Those who understand each other have grown old together, and the rest are just like strangers, but what I admire most is that the male protagonist has a good friend. When the male protagonist makes a decision, the friend said, "I know you, you will do it." What you should do" on the surface is trust in your friends, and the subtext is also saying that no matter what you do, I will support your encouragement. Do you love it?
The three views of the male protagonist in the film? ①Values: Being upright, making promises, willing to help others, referred to as honest people. ② Outlook on life: I like to be a police officer. I don’t have any career goals or lofty ideals. I can go with the situation. Salary is not the most important thing compared with my favorite occupation. ③Love concept: like your partner to pay attention to yourself.
The three viewpoints of the heroine in the film? ①Values: I like the satisfaction that fame and fortune bring to me, and I only see myself when it comes to interests. ②Life outlook: unwilling to pay for nails, unwilling to live in simple houses, and yearn for a prosperous life. ③Love concept: Did not extract relevant information from the film?
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