It hurts to be human.It hurts like hell.
And all the exploring in the world doesn't make that hurt go away.
Because being human and being hurt are the same damn thing.
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We are all scared.Because it's a fucking scary world.
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First use Norman and Kominsky's two lines
?1. Health of the elderly life
When we get older, health problems cannot be avoided, and the quality of life is directly related to health.
And the decline in the quality of life in the later years is almost a certainty, it's just a matter of how many. I really hope that everyone can seriously think about what to do if they lose their ability to take care of themselves and have no quality of life at all.
I hope I can have the courage to end my life.
Death and sex may be our two most taboo topics. But if you don’t understand death, then what is the purpose of living? If you don’t understand sex, how can you enjoy it?
When Eileen died, Kominsky always found excuses for not wanting to visit her. At first I thought it was because of the knot between them. Later, I seemed to understand that it seemed to be because K was afraid of death, even though he was getting closer and closer to the end in more than half a century. , He couldn't accept death, especially his close friends.
If you can't make fifty, you know the fate.
Then why does it have to be thirty?
?2. Family Love in the Elderly Life
In old age, both energy and financial ability have dropped significantly (most people). At this time, the relationship between parents and children is actually inverted (from the perspective of economic relations)
The story of King Lear tells us that "old people must remember to keep their power in their own hands." Of course, the relationship between parents and children must not be defined by simple economic conditions. However, having a good understanding of human nature can reduce a lot of unnecessary trouble.
?3. The Love of Elderly Life
Norman and Eileen’s love is so enviable, even if they end up crazy? Those long and difficult life times have become meaningful because of you
In addition, do elderly people have to grow flowers and dance square dances to take their grandchildren all day long? Why? (Because most people are like this) this is why.
So, please be clear in your mind to make every life decision. It's "you want" rather than "you have to". When the number of "have to" increases, your life may become a template and so do I.
I understand "I have to", but I think, in many cases, there is leeway. Don't give up your right to "freedom" easily.
?4. Other
?There must be some reasons for us to stick around.?
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