In addition to the clever setting of the plot, this film mainly demonstrates its deep understanding of love and marriage through the vivid portrayal of the characters. This film controls the rhythm, expresses delicately, and pays attention to thinking.
The name of the film is right at the center, and the film focuses more on showing the psychological characteristics of a woman who believes in love in love. The initial feeling of worship produces love, and after her writing ability is suppressed by the world, she hopes to realize love through her husband and make her realize her own value on her behalf. Over time, it has become a habit, a habit of integrating selfless efforts into all aspects of life, everything he has is everything she has. In the end, his glory did not actually become her glory. After being provoked by self-biographers, her long-repressed grievances, a strong desire for her literary ability to be recognized, and even jealousy burned out great resentment. So much so that for a while, family affection and love are hard to extinguish. In the end, only when she asks about her initial love and the sudden death of her husband, she finally returns to the sense of self-identity that she has paid for in her life, that is, the sense of role in love. For men, he is an ordinary man who is conceited, passionate, and even rough, in sharp contrast with women, but he also suffers from suffering, appearance and emptiness inside. He longs to be worshipped, but he is helpless by himself. inability. He has derailed many times with inferior techniques, and even more shows his inner hunger for retrieving the feeling of being looked up. As a man, he was tormented by his humble vanity. He had a complex feeling for his former fans and his current support. He felt guilty and troubled with gains and losses, and wanted to please him without losing face. He got a sense of identity in the world, and a Nobel Prize, but he is fading away from the sense of identity in love. In fact, they found a lot of what they wanted from each other and lost a lot of what they once wanted. In any case, it was an imperfect but complete love. In love, I believe that they are two innocent believers from beginning to end, dancing together on the bed to celebrate their common achievements.
In love and marriage, everyone is trying to play the role they expect, just like on the stage of drama, and even some people actually love themselves in interaction more. This is the power of role sense in love. Everyone wants to try their best to maintain an image that matches their own heart. In love, people who believe in love will idealize everything, perfect the image of others, and constantly perfect their own roles for them. And what you get is the other party’s sense of identity with this role, and this sense of identity will bring oneself a sense of presence in a love relationship, and a long-term stable sense of presence is also a sense of security. Therefore, at a deeper level, the woman in the film should be a good wife for love, neglect her need to realize the value of life, give up herself, and gain the future of love. As a good wife and a good mother, she binds her happiness to her family. Maybe she did not find the male god she imagined in her heart, but she believed in her love and hypnotized herself, willing to change and suppress herself for love, and she has the ability to repair him, and use long-term continuous efforts to repair this Love, loves nothing else, and even continues to shape his perfect image in the eyes of others, eventually reaching its peak. If it weren't for the biographer to remind her that she had the ability to write very early, she would rather believe that her talent was given by him. After the need for self-worth was re-awakened, she returned to herself for a time in the extremely disappointed emotions and impulse, and forgot her role in love. It was not a long time. When a man asked why you fell in love with me, she was dumb. She was speechless, because she hypnotized herself and at the same time invisibly kidnapped the man emotionally and morally, and both parties had spent their entire lives for this. In the end, the departure of the man made her succumb to the role she had dedicated her life to, the good wife!
True love can only exist in such people who believe in it and melt themselves for it. If only one person believes in love is tragedy, if two people both believe in love, perfect love will be created.
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